Anyone register early due to pressure?

Ever since we got engaged in April, both of our families have been bugging us to register. We just wanted to wait until before the engagement party in September.

I still wait to wait but FH is starting to cave under all this pressure!!!

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if you put stuff on now people can buy you stuff from the list, that way you won't get any unwanted engagement gifts, but i understand you want to do it closer to the engagment party right?

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I can understand if you have a large engagement party. We still haven't registered. All we had was an engagement dinner with immediate family. If we had a large engagement party I would've registered to make things easier for guests...however you of course do not have to register for everything because somethings may get discontinued. Maybe focus on a fine crystal or porcelain...whatever tchatchkas you like....otherwise many family members buy the ones they like for you. So if you had your eye on a Lladro Statue or a Vera Wang Bowl...I'd do that now. I'm sure the guest appreciate it. It makes their life easier. I know that If I were your guest I would appreciate it.

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I'm havign my engagement party Sun, we got engaged Feb 12th and I'm not having any kind of registry for atleast another few months....Thers no where to put presents, plus I have no clue as to what I want.
(PLus we need all the money we can get for the wedding, hehe)

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I registered soon after we got engaged because I just wanted to go shopping and not have to pay for anything! It was fun! FH had the gun and thought if he aimed it at me, that I'd stop talking!

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We were pressured to register, but it was a great thing. We already have all of our china place settings, all of our silver and some of our crystal. As soon as families knew we were engaged they sent us gifts off of our registry.

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I got engaged April 24th and registered soon after that. I have already gotten a few things off all 3 of my registries! We are having our official family engagement party on june 12th and I know people have been going to the registries to buy things. It's nice to get what I want, and registering is fun (but exhausting)!

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Posted by jandt2006

i understand you want to do it closer to the engagment party right?

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Yes, that and we're living at my parents house now and my mom is complaining about where we're going to put everything. We already rent storage but it's full!

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FH and I were engaged on Mother's Day, and our wedding is still a little over a year away. We're not having an official 'engagement party', but people in FH's extended family were really putting the pressure on us to register, so we did. It's ridiculous...I don't even think any of these people are going to buy us engagement gifts!

Our registry is not even half complete yet. We still have tons of things to pick out, but we've got enough on there to shut everyone up.

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yea. we put a few things on there and just left it. Occasionally I'll update it with things I find online. We never finished though.

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We were definately pressured by our family to register early. My family wanted to get us engagement gifts so we had to do it fast.

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Our families are really pressuring us to register, but I really want to wait a little while... but if they keep it up, we just might have to so they STOP BOTHERING us!!! lol.. but we love them!
Who am I to keep them from buying us presents

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Posted by JeanineHubert

I'm havign my engagement party Sun, we got engaged Feb 12th and I'm not having any kind of registry for atleast another few months....Thers no where to put presents, plus I have no clue as to what I want.
(PLus we need all the money we can get for the wedding, hehe)

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pretty much the same thing here.

And I hardly got any Congratulatory PHONE CALLS when we were engaged... we DEFINITELY didn't get any gifts!

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Me too!!! I have one card from my friend in Florida, and that's it.

I think we're just going to register for a few basic things to shut them up. I think it's funny that FH wasn't caving until HIS family started to pressure him. Mine was doing it for weeks before now.

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I did it bc my uncle kept hounding me...We have gotten some engagement gifts from our registry...Now that we are in contract with our house, I am updating the registry to include things that we will need! We will be moving into the house prior to the bridal shower, so maybe we will get some as house warming gifts

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My family suggested that we do it before the e party. They figured that it would be nice to give people a choice if they wanted to get us a gift..besides this way there is a year to hopefully get all the things we need.

Trust me..once you start you will have fun and you can always add later on.

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Us too....we got engaged in March & will be having our engagement party in July. FH said he really didn't want to register until after the E-party. But people have been asking his mom what we need & if we are registered, so we ended up registering...

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Yes my mom was like you better register b4
x-mass ...I got engaged November 12 I think I was registered by December 1st

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We registered because we figured that people are going to give us gifts for our e-party no matter what. When I went to register, the woman told us to put vases, candles, and picture frames on because people will buy them regardless. Well, she was right! All of the little things are gone! We also registered for our place settings and cookware. As it gets closer, we'll register for our bedding, towels, etc.

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our wedding is too far to register. Out of respect for our parents' wishes, we aren't living together until we're married, and as of right now, we have NO IDEA where we'll be living!!!

Our parents don't have the storage space for gifts, and candles and things would be melted/ruined in almost 2 years anyway, right?