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Beth1210
I want to do it again!
Member since 6/05 4048 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/10/2005 7:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Flowerfield
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Re: Our Fiance's have it easy!!!
Posted by Swan06
Let me ask you ladies this::: Are you doing it all by yourself??? Or do you have your mom & friends helping you? See I'm doing it all by myself so I'm just overwhelmed.
I am doing it all alone- I run things by my sis or freinds- and my Dad comes when there is more then $1000 involved
My Mom passed away almost a year ago- so it's just me- not the way I always pictures it- but I am still having fun-
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Posted 8/4/05 10:25 AM 
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Beth1210
I want to do it again!
Member since 6/05 4048 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/10/2005 7:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Flowerfield
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Re: Our Fiance's have it easy!!!
Posted by jens
They do have it easy, i'm planning w/no other help. I finally gave him projects, he is in charge of getting the guest hotel shuttle, our limo to and from airport. I'm sure i'll be giving him more.
I can't even get the address of Jake's freinds from him- make sure you guys bring this up on Saturday when we come over- I want Jake to see how lucky he is!
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Posted 8/4/05 10:26 AM
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hmpena
Momma to be- team blue!
Member since 1/05 14748 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/15/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow A+
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Re: Our Fiance's have it easy!!!
FI has come with me to every appointment and has never complained. However I do all of the research and legwork. FI is involved and wants to have a say in everything but it gets frustrating sometimes because I am tired of researching everything. I am doing this by myself (with the help of FI). My family is not involved and I am not close to my mother.
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Posted 8/4/05 1:20 PM
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Jennie0898
saving bee bees since 2005
Member since 5/05 3083 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/23/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Watermill
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Re: Our Fiance's have it easy!!!
Posted by Swan06
Why do men think that the wedding planning is our job? Is it me or weren't they the ones that asked us to marry them? This planning is so overwhelming. I think my fiance was all there at first until other men starting telling him to let me do all of the work. RRRR, men.
I see I'm pretty late on this post but I'm gonna add my two cents anyway...
Personally, I like the idea that my FI isn't as involved. My brother was a total groomonster and it was ridiculous. He made my SIL a nut and caused more stress than necessary. I mean HE was obsessed - He actully was worried about the color of the ribbon being used on their FAVORS!!! "It was NOT THE RIGHT COLOR PURPLE"  If my FI was that way I'd KILL him!!! 
Having said that, my FI takes a part in the decision making, I just do the preliminary legwork, but when it's time to make a decision he's there and honestly I'm fine with that. This day is way more important to me than it is to him. That's not to say getting married isn't important to him, it's just all this planning isn't!
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Posted 8/4/05 2:23 PM
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iffer042373
3 weeks to go
Member since 3/05 2017 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/15/2006 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Manor East
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Re: Our Fiance's have it easy!!!
Basically we looked at all the vendors togather and he gives me his input but I do all the leg work and love it and I show him things and he gives me his input and he does come up with some ideas.
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Posted 8/4/05 2:43 PM
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About time
Board Fanatic
Member since 7/05 341 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/2/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
knights of colombus
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Re: Our Fiance's have it easy!!!
Mine has it soooo easy. I do the booking and setting appts and tell him and then he comes w/me....What a hard job 
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Posted 8/4/05 3:08 PM
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MrsP2Be
Officially..Mrs P!
Member since 4/05 2301 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/10/2006 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Watermill A+++++
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Re: Our Fiance's have it easy!!!
I'm starting to make him do the little things like filling out all the stupid forms at vendors etc. 
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Posted 8/4/05 8:34 PM
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Swan06
I'm married!!!!!!!!!!
Member since 6/05 1614 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/3/2006 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Swan Club
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Re: Our Fiance's have it easy!!!
It's feel great to know that I'm not the only one. He actually finished reading the book that I got him from the library on being a supportive groom. It's called, "The Groom's Guide. Almost Everythihg a man needs to know" by Vicki Mack. My fiance read it in two day on his commute to work. He says he highly recommends it  I think he's back to being his lovable self again. Actually pretended like he wanted to go with me to the florist today,  . I told him I preferred to go alone because I didn't want to hear him complain later on that I didn't ask the right questions. He told me that he wouldn't do that anymore . Anyways, make your guys read the book if they don't get the hint
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Posted 8/4/05 10:35 PM
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