NWR: I hate my job

NOW I know we have all felt this way from time to time, and I have a sensational way of exagerrating and taking things to the next level, but since the spring I can honestly say I hate my job more than anythign in the world.
When I got engaged in June it just amplified it. It has gotten to the point that I make myself so upset my FI gets upset too now bc he feels so helpless. What should I do. Do I begin a new job a year before my wedding (I have been here for 5 years) or do I suck it up and plan my wedding and worry about this a year from now

PLease let me know what you think. I am happy to have found you guys. I am on here all day.

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I think you can look for a new job. I just started a new one & my wedding is in June. You can't stay miserable if you gotta go, then start looking.

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Definitely start looking!!! I was in a similar situation. I would come home MISERABLE every night....finally I decided to mail out a few resumes...and I'll be starting my new job next week! I know it could be worse somewhere else, but where I worked, EVERYONE was miserable and everyone complained bc the work s*cked and so did the boss!

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WOW! and you and I are both Carlyle Brides!!!
Ok, I should look. I do come home miserable. This is supposed to be the happiest time of my life.........

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I think you should look for a new job also...!! I just left my last job after 3 years...and I love my new job...

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Take the plunge. Look for something else. It sux to be miserable at your job.

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I would start looking.

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Isn't the Carlyle awesome? Yes I would say start looking, get your resume together, sent it to a bunch of places and have an interview suit ready to go. Good luck!

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Posted by BEANS

I think you can look for a new job. I just started a new one & my wedding is in June. You can't stay miserable if you gotta go, then start looking.

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I would get out of there. It is the worst feeling to be miserable at work.

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I would look for a new job, who needs added stress at this time?! Plus, what if you find one where you make more $$$$$!!!!

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Start looking!!! Life is too short to spend your days be miserable. Think of how much more you will enjoy planning your wedding if you have a job you love, or at least like. The only thing that ***** is the interviews. That is stressful, but worth it.

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you know what, start now... a job search takes time anyway... you can do a little at a time and it might make you happier just knowing that your makng forward movement...

It might also be a stress reliever from planning the wedding... it will get your mind off of it every once in awhile@!

Good Luck!

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I am looking to make a move and take a pay cut. You need to be happy and your job stress can negatively affect you FH. Good Luck

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I hate mine too but with what I do now is a hoorible time to look with bonus' and all...but everyday I try to leave

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I hate my job too but I am glad to have it when payday rolls around. Plus looking for a job while you have a job is always less stressful than when you don't have a job.

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Thanks everyone. I am going to start looking, but I also agree about getting my bonus. I just hate it here sometimes. I am so through!

you guys are great!!!!!!!

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Wow you have been there five years and you are just starting to hate it!

Well it must be really bad since you are just saying it now. I say if you can't bare it start looking hey it never hurts if you can find a job that will pay you more, and help save for the wedding.


Honestly the grass is never greener though.

I left a job for a new one more money and I hate it but now have to stay there is no way I am going to start looking in my industry everyone know everyone and I don't want to be a bouncer (plus the money is really good).

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whoops wrong thread

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You aren't giving us all the info.
How are your hours? If you leave your job, will you have to work longer hours. How about vacation time, etc.

I think it really ***** working where you hate. I have thought about what I am doing a million times and although I am miserable and work at least 11 hrs per day, I kind of think the devil you know is better than the devil you don't. I have some colleagues that I know here that are nice and it is kind of comfortable.
Also, leaving now is hard because I don't know if my next employer would be that understanding about my need to do some wedding related phone calls at work, they are not that understanding here, but because I feel kind of comfortable here, i can make calls. If i started somewhere new, i would want to be on my best behavior and wouldn't be able to take a slightly longer lunch if necessary or leave a little early. You really have to consider the freedom that you have there if you have been there 5 years, vs. trying to make a good impression on new employers. Hope this helps. JMO

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WOW ( I say wow a lot)
this is what my FI has been saying all along. My mother has even rocked the devil line to me
and in some ways you are right, like today all I will do is go to some meetings and chat here

I REALLY would like to take the skills I have learned and align them into nonprofit work
that is my goal