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JessicaM.
totally
Member since 3/05 10894 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/23/2006 12:00 AM
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shes gonna dream up the world she wants to live in
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There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
of course we all love our fh's. of course we love to be with them and WANT to spend the better part of the next 70 years (hey, I have high aspirations! LOL) with them BUT......
what is the one (or more  ) thing you will miss about being single. And I don't mean so much dating, but just being what you will miss about being "on your own"?
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Posted 12/30/05 9:42 AM 
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stephanief
It's fun to be ONE!!!!
Member since 7/05 4523 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/15/2006 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Lake Ronkonkoma
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
I have to be honest, I do not miss a thing about single life. I am definitely a "relationship" person and I am so glad that I found my FH....
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Posted 12/30/05 9:44 AM
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JessicaM.
totally
Member since 3/05 10894 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/23/2006 12:00 AM
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shes gonna dream up the world she wants to live in
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
for me, it has to be living alone. fh and I see each other pretty much every day, BUT there are some days when he goes off and does his thing, and I can just go home and be alone. Watch food tv, eat pizza, and worry about NO ONE but myself. It's very selfish I know (but once and I while I don't think there is anything wrong with that) and I know I will miss it terribly, though most likely not until the initial "newlywed" bliss is over.
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Posted 12/30/05 9:45 AM
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seta
Can you get over yourself?
Member since 6/05 3927 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/21/2006 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow - N/A
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
I'm similiar to jess... I love FH..but I got so used to living in my own space...even though he is here most of the time, I like the fact that I can just veg out..like i am now and not have to be around anyone...is that terrible???I know we will be fine...I think i will just miss my own time....
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Posted 12/30/05 9:47 AM
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JanuaryBride06
boyfriend in my head
Member since 4/05 13018 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/8/2006 12:00 PM
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
I miss all of the alone time that I used to have - it's so hard to write and work out nearly as much as I used to now that Dan and I live together.
I was definitely not a relationship type person before so sometimes I miss going out with my girls till all hours and just dancing and having fun. We still try to get together, but it's harder now that we're all attached and some friends are having babies.
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Posted 12/30/05 9:48 AM
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lipglossjunky73
Cai-Dizzle. Nuff said.
Member since 10/05 9121 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Harbor Club
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
Using my money just for me - not for us, our bills, and for his daughters food and child support... Just for me - if I wanted to go shopping, I didn't have to worry about his cc bills, or his child support, or anything else - just me.
If I wanted to go out to eat, just worrying abut paying for food just for me...
and - I miss ballroom dancing... I spent all my time dancing when I was single!
But, he is wonderful and so are the girls... I guess everything has a price, huh?
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Posted 12/30/05 9:49 AM
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MissingTheBGene
We're homeowners!
Member since 6/05 4547 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/2/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Woodlands
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
I know I'll miss the alone time, but FI is good about giving me decent space when I need it.
It's the compromising that I still need to get used to!
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Posted 12/30/05 9:50 AM
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Goldi1021
Growing a miracle in my belly!
Member since 1/05 12772 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/18/2006 7:00 PM
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Temple Avodah
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
My feelings are simple. I will miss being able to do things without comments. Mind you, I lived on my own for a long time before FH came around. If I want or need to pass gas, I'm gonna do it if he is here or not.
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Posted 12/30/05 9:50 AM
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Kris516
Homeowners!!
Member since 1/05 3796 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/23/2006 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Estate at East Wind
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
The only thing I can think of is that I'll never be in a new relationship again - you know in the beginning where you can't eat or sleep - wondring if he feels the same - the dates. Other than that, I don't hink I'll miss a thing. I love having a partner like Justin to share my life with.
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Posted 12/30/05 9:50 AM
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Dom n Nic
It's An Obsession
Member since 10/04 3593 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/30/2012 12:00 AM
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
for me
it would have to be living with my parents,SPENDING ALL MY MONEY which will not be mine anymore it will be ours lol.
i cant really say hanging out with my friends cause we still hang out with our friends and it was never a problem
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Posted 12/30/05 9:50 AM
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leighdvm
Homeowners!!!!!!!!!!
Member since 10/04 3346 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/25/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The GORGEOUS Villa Lombardi's
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
I loved having my own space. I live with FH and definitely feel comfortable enough to lay on the couch with sweats on and no makeup, and just be a lazy bum all day. BUT, there are times that I want to do that and not talk to anyone at all, including him. Just ME TIME, you know?
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Posted 12/30/05 9:51 AM
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LaurenluvsTJ
Married life is sweet!
Member since 1/05 11868 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/28/2006 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
Probably the money thing- my money has always been mine and I don't have to explain what I am doing with it.
I think he feels the same way because when I asked him if he wanted to get a joint bank account now, he said no because he didn't want me to know what he spent money on
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Posted 12/30/05 9:51 AM
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seta
Can you get over yourself?
Member since 6/05 3927 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/21/2006 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow - N/A
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
Posted by leighdvm
I loved having my own space. I live with FH and definitely feel comfortable enough to lay on the couch with sweats on and no makeup, and just be a lazy bum all day. BUT, there are times that I want to do that and not talk to anyone at all, including him. Just ME TIME, you know?
you hit the nail on the head!!!
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Posted 12/30/05 9:52 AM
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SuzBride
The Jack!
Member since 1/05 9762 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/8/2006 11:30 AM
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Land's End :) 11!
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
Posted by JanuaryBride06
I miss all of the alone time that I used to have - it's so hard to write and work out nearly as much as I used to now that Dan and I live together.
I was definitely not a relationship type person before so sometimes I miss going out with my girls till all hours and just dancing and having fun. We still try to get together, but it's harder now that we're all attached and some friends are having babies.
me too - I was very much a solitary person - I liked to have time to listen to music, write, think, read. I spend so much time with FH sometimes I forget that I still need this time to myself.
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Posted 12/30/05 9:52 AM
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tracy2246
Invites out
Member since 3/05 1598 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/3/2006 4:00 PM
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
I agree-some alone time is nice-but FI works nights so I am not sure if I will miss it.
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Posted 12/30/05 9:55 AM
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Thumballina
Sei l'amore della mia vita
Member since 12/04 2890 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/24/2006 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
I miss being able to watch whatever I want on tv...
No seriously...my alone time...there are times when I just need to be by myself with no cell phone in range and just chill out...since we don't live together right now I'm still able to do this...its going to be harder once we're married and living in a one bedroom apartment...I could always try the bathroom out if I was really desperate...
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Posted 12/30/05 9:56 AM
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M&S Sept12006
2 Years Down...
Member since 3/05 5843 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/1/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Westbury Manor - A
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
I will definitely miss (and I think this pretty natural) the ability to flirt...Im serious...even ever since we got engaged I just feel like its inappropriate to do so and I hold back...imagine what it'll be like when I get married...I'll be an old married lady!
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Posted 12/30/05 9:56 AM
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CJStein
The waiting drove me mad....
Member since 11/04 2628 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/18/2006 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Carlyle on the Green A+ and beyond
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
Just my alone time. Every once in a while I like being home alone and cleaning, reading, napping.....since we'll finally be living together soon, I won't get that as much. But, FH is good about giving me my "space."
I will NOT miss going out and being single. I have single friends who share their horror dating stories. I'm so happy to be in a relationship.
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Posted 12/30/05 9:58 AM
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lipglossjunky73
Cai-Dizzle. Nuff said.
Member since 10/05 9121 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Harbor Club
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
Posted by M&S Sept12006
I will definitely miss (and I think this pretty natural) the ability to flirt...Im serious...even ever since we got engaged I just feel like its inappropriate to do so and I hold back...imagine what it'll be like when I get married...I'll be an old married lady!
I have been caught flirting a few times...
Plus, my FH's daughter notices my wandering eye - and points it out loudly... 
Hey - I'm not dead you know!!!
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Posted 12/30/05 9:58 AM
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Preshy7
I love being his wife
Member since 12/04 4958 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/22/2006 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet Willow Creek - PERFECTION
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
not really being single but more like the things that go along with being single like
-livinig cheaply with roommates and spending all my money on myself
-not having a mortgage
-decorating my way with sparkly pillows and red satin duvet cover - now our house is a little less girly
-looking forward to getting engaged
however, for all those things i really love having a home with fh and i am so looking forward to being a wife.nothing compares to that!
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Posted 12/30/05 9:59 AM
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nygirl77
It's over already??
Member since 9/05 1817 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/28/2006 11:45 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
I agree with Kris516 - the feeling of being in a "new" relationship. I haven't had that in over 6 years!
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Posted 12/30/05 10:02 AM
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Mystere
I'm married!!!
Member since 3/05 1917 total posts
Wedding Date:
2/11/2006 10:30 AM
Wed. Location:
The Sand Castle
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
I miss having control over the tv remote! and he's a flipper on commercials and i hate that b/c i worry i'll miss something!
But i Love FH and can't wait to spend my life with him!!
ETA: i will miss decorating however i want too! but he's very good and let me do alot with color in our apartment - he even let me paint the bedroom lavender!! but has outlawed girly throw pillows etc
Message edited 12/30/2005 10:06:14 AM.
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Posted 12/30/05 10:02 AM
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jes81276
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 3/05 1896 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/21/2006 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet at Willow Creek
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
My last name....I feel like I am losing part of my identity that I have had for 29 years. I am a teacher too, so I am called by my last name a billion times a day - it's part of who I am and I feel a little upset that I am losing that. I know that I can hypenate or not take FH's last name, but I want that honor...at the same time I feel like I am losing a part of myself. Sound crazy?
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Posted 12/30/05 10:03 AM
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steflily
Officially a Baker!
Member since 11/04 1537 total posts
Wedding Date:
3/11/2006 3:15 PM
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Bellport Country Club A++++
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
My alone time.
I will be going from living on my own (and I have for the past 6 years) to a home with Fh and two teenage girls. I am scared on how I will adapt to it and the major changes in my routines.
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Posted 12/30/05 10:05 AM
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Awhite80
Board Fanatic
Member since 10/04 673 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/18/2006 4:30 PM
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Finished
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Re: There is so much talk about our year approaching....well ladies, this is our last year as SINGLE women! So, I have a question...
im pretty much living the single lift. I only get to see FI for 5 days every 4-6 weeks. I cannot wait until I can to spend every day with him althought probably after awhile I will crave my own space too. In four weeks (when i move to england) I will let you know!
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Posted 12/30/05 10:06 AM
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