Girls a little advise please

Okay the mother of one of my fgs IMs me today askng me questions about the dress thats only $39. The thing is this woman is married with 6 kids. I don't know any of them. I met my FG onces mind you shes not even two, once. I also met her two baby boys onces. The oldest of the boys is three. Her three other kids I NEVER met but heard about a lot. I'm hiring a sitter for the little kids but I only want that for the four FGs girls. The oldest will be 5. I can't leave one sitter alone with 6 kids ages, 5, 4, 3, 2, 2, 2. Nor do I want to have another sitter. Guys what do I do? Also her three other kids are late teens. I don't know them at all. Am I being bratty about this?

Re: Girls a little advise please

Did she ask you to invite all her kids to the wedding??? I would only have the FG and her parents at the wedding?

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She didn't ask but I don't know how to tell her.

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Talk to her before its too late. She can't expect you to invite every kid in creation. May I ask how you know the FG, if you met her only once?

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Just have the kids you need to have there. It's a wedding, not a free for all!!

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Wait- I'm confused, is she saying that their childcare is your responsibility?

Oh- sorry- a sitter at the wedding.

Re: Girls a little advise please

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Posted by EmberLynn

She didn't ask but I don't know how to tell her.

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when you send your invite, only put your fg's name on it, along with her's... that should send her the message about who is actually invited...