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What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?
NovemberSue Posted: Oct 02, 2002 11:42 AM+
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What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

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NovemberSue Posted: Oct 02, 2002 11:51 AM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

Someone asked for our DJ's phone number because they wanted to make a dedication to their husband. FH said he would ask DJ to play the song but no dedications. I am still in shock that someone would do that.
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Annie02 Posted: Oct 02, 2002 11:53 AM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

Novemberbride - I laughed out loud when I read this - the nerve of some people!!
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ss2002 Posted: Oct 02, 2002 12:07 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

LOL!

Someone asked my FH if the reception hall would be able to accomodate them a little early...like a pre-cocktail hour. Hello? There's only about an hour and a half between our mass and cocktail hour-can't you just go grab a cup of coffee or something and kill a little time? We've just about hit rock bottom financing our reception and think that hosting a party with cocktail hour, dinner, dancing and dessert is enough!! We can't swing a pre-cocktail hour.

I really hope I'm not coming across as mean or insensitive! It's just that I've killed hours between wedding masses and receptions, and never thought it was a big deal.

This request came from friends who are not married. I guess they haven't been in our shoes so they don't understand.
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Sonicstef Posted: Oct 02, 2002 12:09 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

One person in my wedding party implied that I CAN'T get married at my reception site because they 'serve too much seafood'.

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Mrs2Be Posted: Oct 02, 2002 12:10 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

I'm not having children at our wedding and someone asked if they could bring their kids and if the country club would set up a tent for kids to stay in!
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LaurenS Posted: Oct 02, 2002 12:12 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

I love this topic!! I am sure that shortly I will have something to add. Novemberbride--I can't get over that someone actually asked for the DJ's #!!
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NovemberSue Posted: Oct 02, 2002 12:14 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

Not only that but then she said to FH,'You know the party isn't really for you.It's for all the guests.'
FH said 'You're wrong! The party is for US and you were invited to join us.WE'RE PAYING FOR IT.'
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michele31 Posted: Oct 02, 2002 12:17 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

A dedicated to THEIR husband What is wrong with these people?
I need to think about this question for a while. Nothing I have can top wanting to dedicate a song at my wedding though. That is a new one!
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luvleyles Posted: Oct 02, 2002 12:26 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

Move the date - the day after Thanksgiving is toufh b/c she is hosting Thanksgiving dinner


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NovemberSue Posted: Oct 02, 2002 12:33 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

OMG, change the date because it doesn't work for her!
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JENHOS Posted: Oct 02, 2002 12:36 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

allow there 16 year old son to bring a date because he didn't want to 'come alone'!!!
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Teri Posted: Oct 02, 2002 12:39 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

not have a Christmas wedding since the Florida relatives (maybe 4 all together) don't want to fly up in the cold weather
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blushingbride2003 Posted: Oct 02, 2002 01:34 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

My grandmother said I couldn't get married until my older brother gets married. She says it's tradition that the oldest gets married first. My parents told her she was nuts! LOL!!
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boosh78201 Posted: Oct 02, 2002 02:13 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

We have an aunt and an uncle who we invited to the wedding. They then called us and asked if they could bring their daughters who I havent seen in years. One of who is married and also asked if they could bring their newborn baby!!
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Crisco718 Posted: Oct 02, 2002 02:16 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

Delay the ceremony until 12:30 PM (from 11:30 AM) because it is too early in the morning. Then she proceeded to tell me that I may not look my best in the morning. WTF!!!!
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scheca Posted: Oct 02, 2002 02:24 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

These are too funny! My mother told me that I HAD to have high centerpieces or she would never talk to me again! She's a little dramatic... But I figure I would give into her on this one thing (Plus I was undecided anyway) if it will make her that unhappy if I have low centerpieces.
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Teri Posted: Oct 02, 2002 02:25 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

Crisco - that's harsh! Who was this woman? How obnxious!!!
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Crisco718 Posted: Oct 02, 2002 02:26 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

This is my FMIL who is usually super nice and sweet.
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NovemberSue Posted: Oct 02, 2002 02:28 PM+
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Re: What's the most outragous thing someone ask you to do for YOUR wedding?

Wow Crisco, that sounds like something my grandma would say. At my bridal shower she asked me why my hair was curly. I told her that is my natural hair and I didn't feel like blow-drying it straight. She said 'I don't like it.'
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