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oh lord....
Goldi1021
Posted: Jan 24, 2008 09:58 PM+

Posted: Jan 24, 2008 09:58 PM
Re: oh lord....
I think you should feel how you feel. Let her learn on her own as long as her relationship doesn't become a drain on you. Marriage isn't all glamorous. She will learn soon enough.
kissy27
Posted: Jan 25, 2008 06:52 AM+

Posted: Jan 25, 2008 06:52 AM
Re: oh lord....
Yikes!!! You are definately not wrong for feeling the way you do...Just let her learn the way of the world. She will learn quickly that all things are not glamorous!!!!
ewickens
Posted: Jan 25, 2008 09:01 AM+

Posted: Jan 25, 2008 09:01 AM
Re: oh lord....
Just be the supportive sister you are and be there for all her ups and downs as she experiences them. You may not agree with what she does/doesn't do, but some mistakes you have to learn on your own!
cindyandkevin
Posted: Jan 25, 2008 11:33 AM+

Posted: Jan 25, 2008 11:33 AM
Re: oh lord....
I agree with the other ladies. Is this someone she's been with for a long time? Are they planning the wedding right away or going to have a long engagement? College isn't for everyone, and some people like to go to work right out of HS. It might not be your choice or mine, but a lot of people have been quite successful following this path. Hopefully your sister will do the right thing, in the meantime have a talk with her but be supportive (not judgemental).
evnme
Posted: Jan 25, 2008 01:36 PM+

Posted: Jan 25, 2008 01:36 PM
Re: oh lord....
Posted by ewickens
Just be the supportive sister you are and be there for all her ups and downs as she experiences them. You may not agree with what she does/doesn't do, but some mistakes you have to learn on your own!![]()
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waterspout4
Posted: Jan 26, 2008 04:11 AM+

Posted: Jan 26, 2008 04:11 AM
Re: oh lord....
Oh my. I remember being that young and thinking I knew everything.
Now I look back upon who I was dating at that time and laugh!Hopefully it's one of those LOOOOOONG engagements.
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