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jaep129
Soon to be Mrs. Cross!!!!!!!!!
Member since 5/07 1366 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/18/2008 5:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Bayview House Captian Bills
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Re: Weekend Plans
First the couple started off (well the husband) by saying that "All the evil in the world is b/c of homosexuality" I am not lying. Also, that all children from divorced parents are "scum" I am quoting what he said. It really upset me and the other people there. Two couple left but we stayed b/c I didn't want to have to retake it and my mom is making us get married in a church. I am sure not all are like this but what horrible things to say. It just really made me mad. FH is not catholic and was so angry I had to fight to keep him there. I actually wrote a letter to the archdioceses b/c I was so upset. I am not a religious person but come on its 2008. Just a bad bad experience. The other thing I hated was the second class all they talked about Natural Family Planning. Most people don't follow that so it was annoying. They were so pushy with what they believed.
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Posted 5/16/08 12:04 PM 
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jaep129
Soon to be Mrs. Cross!!!!!!!!!
Member since 5/07 1366 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/18/2008 5:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Bayview House Captian Bills
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Re: Weekend Plans
Posted by lillprincess54
Posted by jaep129
Friday: Din at FFIL
Sat: FH Golf, Me lunch with an old friend (Sorority Sister I haven't seen in a year)
Sun: Hang out! I am a teacher and I have three students who keep having seizures and they cant figure out why. Yesterday the one girl had 8. It is so stressing me out b/c Its scary. Oh and good luck at PreCana (The worst thing FH and I have ever had to experience. It made me hate the Roman Catholic Church even more! But good Luck)
where did you do your precana because we did ours ar a roman catholic church, we had a good time, we ate, drank coffee and sat in a circle talking about just everyday bs, nothing really to do with the church
Ours was at a roman catholic church too! I expalained why it was so bad in another post if you want to read why it was so horrible!
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Posted 5/16/08 12:05 PM
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futuremrsfab
160 invited, 65 Y, 8 N
Member since 3/07 5475 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/12/2008 2:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Check!
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Re: Weekend Plans
Posted by jaep129
First the couple started off (well the husband) by saying that "All the evil in the world is b/c of homosexuality" I am not lying. Also, that all children from divorced parents are "scum" I am quoting what he said. It really upset me and the other people there. Two couple left but we stayed b/c I didn't want to have to retake it and my mom is making us get married in a church. I am sure not all are like this but what horrible things to say. It just really made me mad. FH is not catholic and was so angry I had to fight to keep him there. I actually wrote a letter to the archdioceses b/c I was so upset. I am not a religious person but come on its 2008. Just a bad bad experience. The other thing I hated was the second class all they talked about Natural Family Planning. Most people don't follow that so it was annoying. They were so pushy with what they believed.
oh wow- I'm sorry that you guys had such a terrible experience- precana when it is done the right way is an awesome experience that really helps you build a foundation for your marriage- I am sorry that you guys didnt get that. 
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Posted 5/16/08 12:09 PM
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laurak102476
Board Fanatic
Member since 4/07 463 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/27/2008 6:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Three Village Inn
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Re: Weekend Plans
Leaving for PA tonight, for a mini-moon!! We'll have my 6 year old daughter with us...but will be nice to just get away from LI for the weekend!!
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Posted 5/16/08 12:09 PM
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Gigi08
Marrying the love of my life!
Member since 3/08 1911 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/14/2008 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Villa Lombardi's
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Re: Weekend Plans
Posted by jaep129
First the couple started off (well the husband) by saying that "All the evil in the world is b/c of homosexuality" I am not lying. Also, that all children from divorced parents are "scum" I am quoting what he said. It really upset me and the other people there. Two couple left but we stayed b/c I didn't want to have to retake it and my mom is making us get married in a church. I am sure not all are like this but what horrible things to say. It just really made me mad. FH is not catholic and was so angry I had to fight to keep him there. I actually wrote a letter to the archdioceses b/c I was so upset. I am not a religious person but come on its 2008. Just a bad bad experience. The other thing I hated was the second class all they talked about Natural Family Planning. Most people don't follow that so it was annoying. They were so pushy with what they believed.
   Wow! I'm glad you wrote a letter.
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Posted 5/16/08 12:10 PM
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Gigi08
Marrying the love of my life!
Member since 3/08 1911 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/14/2008 12:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Villa Lombardi's
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Re: Weekend Plans
Tonight I'm starting my laundry. Tomorrow I have errands and cleaning to do. On Sunday, I'm taking my mother to look for her dress! Then I'm taking her to my cousin's (MOH) for lunch and so my mother and aunt can spend some time together.
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Posted 5/16/08 12:14 PM
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wifetobe
Never sweat the small stuff!!!
Member since 10/07 1883 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/3/2008 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Riviera
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Re: Weekend Plans
HOLY COW THAT'S HORRIBLE!!!
Did you get a response to your letter?
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Posted 5/16/08 12:43 PM
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JoeJo
I am a Mrs!!
Member since 1/07 1617 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/24/2008 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Chateau La Mer
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Re: Weekend Plans
Tonight: Carpet shopping
Sat: Working on our house
Sun: working on our house
Basically going to be locked up in our house until we are done..since its our last weekend to do anything!!!
Construction people have slowed us down BIG TIME!
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Posted 5/16/08 12:46 PM
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mariaobride
That's Right I am Mrs. O
Member since 9/07 5806 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/6/2008 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Beckwith Pointe
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Re: Weekend Plans
tonight- my fitting 
tomorrow- bachorlette party
sunday- sisters b-day!
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Posted 5/16/08 1:07 PM
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snwb08
mahwage!!!
Member since 4/07 3633 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/31/2008 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
on the water
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Re: Weekend Plans
tonight: making menus
tomorrow: picking out cake in the a.m. then bachelorette party #1 at the borgata in a.c.
sunday: getting a facial, coming back from a.c., and hopefully doing laundry, cleaning my apartment, and finishing favor tags. oh and doing table arrangements 
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Posted 5/16/08 1:25 PM
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Browneyesncute
Working on Improving Me!
Member since 8/07 4705 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/14/2008 3:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow
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Re: Weekend Plans
Posted by mariaobride
tonight- my fitting
tomorrow- bachorlette party
sunday- sisters b-day!
Take pics of your fitting! where are you going for your bach party
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Posted 5/16/08 1:25 PM
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ant n tilde
I am a married lady!!!
Member since 6/06 13193 total posts
Wedding Date:
1/12/2008 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: Weekend Plans
Posted by jaep129
First the couple started off (well the husband) by saying that "All the evil in the world is b/c of homosexuality" I am not lying. Also, that all children from divorced parents are "scum" I am quoting what he said. It really upset me and the other people there. Two couple left but we stayed b/c I didn't want to have to retake it and my mom is making us get married in a church. I am sure not all are like this but what horrible things to say. It just really made me mad. FH is not catholic and was so angry I had to fight to keep him there. I actually wrote a letter to the archdioceses b/c I was so upset. I am not a religious person but come on its 2008. Just a bad bad experience. The other thing I hated was the second class all they talked about Natural Family Planning. Most people don't follow that so it was annoying. They were so pushy with what they believed.
I am so sorry that you had a bad experience. Our precana was wonderful. We learned tools that we actually USE in our marriage - half in a mocking way but it definitely has helped us in our relationship. You should definitely follow up with the diocese bc people like that should NOT be leading precana!
We learned about Natural Family Planning too and while they said a few things I didn't agree with - it was mostly just informative!
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Posted 5/16/08 1:29 PM
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Bride 2 Be
190 Invited; Yes- 137 No- 18
Member since 9/06 19443 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/15/2008 4:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Watermill
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Re: Weekend Plans
tonight:out for my friends birthday!
saturday: finally planting flowers (with my mom's help of course)..fh is going for tuxes
sunday: nothing yet
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Posted 5/16/08 6:20 PM
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AndRecKy
SuMmEr LoViN
Member since 9/07 3442 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/16/2008 6:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Hamlet Willow Creek
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Re: Weekend Plans
i just got back from the gym! now going out to dinner and then coming back to stuff invites and then drink wine
tomorrow-gym in the morning and long island at night
sunday-meeting the rabbi who is officiating our wedding 
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Posted 5/16/08 6:22 PM
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jaep129
Soon to be Mrs. Cross!!!!!!!!!
Member since 5/07 1366 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/18/2008 5:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Bayview House Captian Bills
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Re: Weekend Plans
Posted by ant n tilde
Posted by jaep129
First the couple started off (well the husband) by saying that "All the evil in the world is b/c of homosexuality" I am not lying. Also, that all children from divorced parents are "scum" I am quoting what he said. It really upset me and the other people there. Two couple left but we stayed b/c I didn't want to have to retake it and my mom is making us get married in a church. I am sure not all are like this but what horrible things to say. It just really made me mad. FH is not catholic and was so angry I had to fight to keep him there. I actually wrote a letter to the archdioceses b/c I was so upset. I am not a religious person but come on its 2008. Just a bad bad experience. The other thing I hated was the second class all they talked about Natural Family Planning. Most people don't follow that so it was annoying. They were so pushy with what they believed.
I am so sorry that you had a bad experience. Our precana was wonderful. We learned tools that we actually USE in our marriage - half in a mocking way but it definitely has helped us in our relationship. You should definitely follow up with the diocese bc people like that should NOT be leading precana!
We learned about Natural Family Planning too and while they said a few things I didn't agree with - it was mostly just informative!
It was not normal. I wrote a letter to my priest, teh precana people, and the priest whos church my precana was held in. It really was horrible. I was so upset after we left.
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Posted 5/16/08 6:23 PM
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FutureMrsCarrieri
Picked up my DOJ!!!!!
Member since 7/07 1705 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/27/2008 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
CLM
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Re: Weekend Plans
let's see
tonight -- nothing -- FH is working late and I have to clean up
sat -- sleep late, get an oil change. FH will work all day
sun -- go to cousin's college graduation. FH will be working all day
Does anybody see a trend here? I might as well be single
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Posted 5/16/08 6:38 PM
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FutureMrsCarrieri
Picked up my DOJ!!!!!
Member since 7/07 1705 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/27/2008 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
CLM
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Re: Weekend Plans
Posted by jaep129
First the couple started off (well the husband) by saying that "All the evil in the world is b/c of homosexuality" I am not lying. Also, that all children from divorced parents are "scum" I am quoting what he said. It really upset me and the other people there. Two couple left but we stayed b/c I didn't want to have to retake it and my mom is making us get married in a church. I am sure not all are like this but what horrible things to say. It just really made me mad. FH is not catholic and was so angry I had to fight to keep him there. I actually wrote a letter to the archdioceses b/c I was so upset. I am not a religious person but come on its 2008. Just a bad bad experience. The other thing I hated was the second class all they talked about Natural Family Planning. Most people don't follow that so it was annoying. They were so pushy with what they believed.
Faith is a beautiful thing -- it's crazies like that who drive people away from religion
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Posted 5/16/08 6:41 PM
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Princess Cut Bride
Offical homeowners! YAY!!!!!!
Member since 1/07 5626 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/12/2008 2:30 PM
Wed. Location:
Booked
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Re: Weekend Plans
Fri. - Movies with FH
Sat.- AM- Fitting with my mom for MOB dress
Afternoon - Communion party for FH's cousin
PM- ?
Sun.- Working 11-8
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Posted 5/16/08 8:22 PM
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JBoothIn2008
Less is more.
Member since 3/07 6099 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/25/2008 1:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow
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Re: Weekend Plans
tonight - i went to the gym and now am watching tlc, fh is out and it's just me and the dog 
tomorrow - gym in the am hopefully (if i can will myself to go) and then ... ??? I am guessing laundry and cleaning, would like to go to loehmanns to look for a shower dress. at night we are going to see a grateful dead cover band FH likes, I am not too thrilled about it but it will be ok.
sunday - gym in the am, again, if I can get motivated enough ... then shopping at BJs for our memorial day camping trip, and probably just making dinner and hanging out at night.
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Posted 5/16/08 8:38 PM
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ldrenckhahn
Board Fanatic
Member since 10/07 704 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/28/2008 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Flowerfield
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Re: Weekend Plans
Saturday-Family day for NYPD academy for FBIL
Sunday-Hair,makeup, SHOWER!
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Posted 5/16/08 9:56 PM
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lyss0908
WOOHOO DD'S
Member since 9/07 1351 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/19/2008 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Fox Hollow-Garden Terrace
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Re: Weekend Plans
tonight dinner with FH
Tomorrow getting Highlights and checking out my wedding band!!!
Sunday- possibly checking out houses~!! 
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Posted 5/16/08 10:15 PM
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babygirlb
"I'm Addicted"
Member since 12/07 1503 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/22/2008 10:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Booked
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Re: Weekend Plans
Getting my hair wash. Going to a birthdal party and a going away party.
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Posted 5/17/08 2:57 AM
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