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I sent thank you cards to our stiffers...

Misty Posted: Sep 11, 2003 12:57 PM+

Misty MEMBER SINCE: 9/02 TOTAL POSTS : 8409 WEDDING DATE: Jun 20, 2010

Posted: Sep 11, 2003 12:57 PM

I sent thank you cards to our stiffers...

.....I actually felt bad not thanking them for their attendance! I wasn't going to do this until I made my way down the list, and realized that there was just no reason why they didn't give a gift..and neither DH or myself could figure it out. So we felt like being the better people and thanking them for what was important...the fact that they showed up.

shamma Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:01 PM+

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Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:01 PM

Re: I sent thank you cards to our stiffers...

You are too kind

Misty Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:01 PM+

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Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:01 PM

Re: I sent thank you cards to our stiffers...

Yep..I am!

shamma Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:05 PM+

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Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:05 PM

Re: I sent thank you cards to our stiffers...

I am proud of you and your hubby for taking the high road. What was your favor???

Misty Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:09 PM+

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Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:09 PM

Re: I sent thank you cards to our stiffers...

Favor? We had little boxes of chocolate and mini bottles of champagne.

jennbaby Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:12 PM+

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Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:12 PM

Re: I sent thank you cards to our stiffers...

I sent my 2 stiffers plain TY-no pics

Misty Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:15 PM+

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Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:15 PM

Re: I sent thank you cards to our stiffers...

I sent pics too, I figure they can look at our faces and feel guilty.

joeslauren Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:22 PM+

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Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:22 PM

Re: I sent thank you cards to our stiffers...

maybe this will jog their memory and they'll send u something!!! that's just rude!

Teri Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:36 PM+

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Posted: Sep 11, 2003 01:36 PM

Re: I sent thank you cards to our stiffers...

It's better to take the high road. I sent TYs to my 2 stiffers too - I even wondered if that would trigger them to remember they didn't give us anything! No such luck

shamma Posted: Sep 11, 2003 02:50 PM+

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Posted: Sep 11, 2003 02:50 PM

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They have up to a year Terri, 10/5 is almost here

michele31 Posted: Sep 11, 2003 03:23 PM+

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Posted: Sep 11, 2003 03:23 PM

Re: I sent thank you cards to our stiffers...

Good for you. You are a better person. There is proably no reason for their rudeness...

Teri Posted: Sep 11, 2003 05:54 PM+

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Posted: Sep 11, 2003 05:54 PM

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shamma, i won't hold my breath

NovemberSue Posted: Sep 11, 2003 06:40 PM+

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Posted: Sep 11, 2003 06:40 PM

Re: I sent thank you cards to our stiffers...

We did the same thing. We thanked them for being there even though I think they should have sent us a thank you.

bedda26 Posted: Sep 12, 2003 01:26 PM+

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Posted: Sep 12, 2003 01:26 PM

Re: I sent thank you cards to our stiffers...

We had two stiffers as well I wonder if I send them one. One of them I found out why she didnt give. She told one of my bridesmaids that she couldnt give because she is in a financial rut so my friend told her she shouldnt have in the first place and the other stiff...I dont know what her story is...She had to leave early cuz her date got drunk and probably forgot but hello put it in the mail you ding-dong! I wonder If i should do the same thing and send them a card with no picture.