Repost from '06 Board: 1st UGH moment with BM

(I meant to post this on BHB, sorry for the repeat!)

So we're driving the other day and we were talking about the dresses and the need to go get fitted since we're hitting the 6 month mark. She proceeds to tell me that she's not going to go get fitted for the dress until April 1st because she doesn't want to shop this month and if she has to go to the mall (where Macy's Bridal is) she'll be tempted to shop.

Ummmm.....I was speechless.

I really don't know how to express to my BM's without sounding like a Bridzilla that it's important to get the dresses ordered within the 6 month mark. I feel like such a B asking them all the time about it. I know it's money and maybe people just don't have the deposit yet, but I'm worrying that the laziness is going to start some issues I'm not ready to deal with.

Any advice??