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freaking out! UPDATE!!!!
soontobecruz Posted: Apr 01, 2011 11:42 AM+
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freaking out! UPDATE!!!!

some if you will remember the post I made the other day asking for prayers... well I don't have any results yet and I am starting to freak out!

I was told it would take 2 days... today is 3 so I called the Dr. and the receptionist said she would check my file and call me back. I know dr's offices aren't great at calling back, but I also don't know if

1. They just don't have the reults back yet
2. Whatever it could be is all negative and she is just busy
3. Something is positive and the doctor himself has to call me and is busy himself

I called nearly 3 hours ago and I have been trying to remain calm since and I am starting to freak! I don't want to nag them and call again. I worked in doctors offices for years and I know what that's like. I literally started crying at work over something so stupid because I am so stressed! I don't want to leave to get lunch in fear they will call while I am gone... I am like on the verge of a panic attack and need to calm the EFF down...




whew I really had to get that out... it actually made me feel a bit better

UPDATE!!! So I called back. I spoke to my doctor and everything came back fine! I'm slightly relieved but also still wondering why I am feeling the way I do... Oh well.. I'm not going to stress over it anymore. THANK YOU EVERYONE!
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CarolAnn721 Posted: Apr 01, 2011 11:44 AM+
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Re: freaking out!

Usually if the results are bad, you get a call much sooner from the Doctor themselves. I think since it is day 3, I would freak out as much!!! Hopefully you are in the clear!!! But I would definitely call this receptionist back.



Hoping for good results and for you to have a stress free weekend!!
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Lsorrent Posted: Apr 01, 2011 11:45 AM+
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Re: freaking out!

RELAX. DEEP DEEP BREATHES.

Ok so they said two days and today is day three. It's not like it's a month later and you're still waiting. I'm sure they're busy, held up, whatever. If you're afraid to miss the call, why not give them your cell number?
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Byrne2Be Posted: Apr 01, 2011 11:45 AM+
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Re: freaking out!

Take a deep breath - FM if you wanna talk! I spend every single day of my working life in and out of drs offices and I feel pretty confident saying that the delay in calling back likely has ZERO to do with you!

Also, labs are sometimes unreliable in terms of getting results back, etc.

There are SO MANY reasons for the delay...

I can only imagine your anxiety...but try to remain calm...honestly, deep breathing really helps!

I have a doctors appt next week for a similar reason and i'm already freaking out so I don't want you to think I'm just rambling to try and make you feel better!!!

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flibbertigibbet Posted: Apr 01, 2011 11:45 AM+
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soontobecruz Posted: Apr 01, 2011 11:48 AM+
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Re: freaking out!

Posted by Lsorrent

RELAX. DEEP DEEP BREATHES.

Ok so they said two days and today is day three. It's not like it's a month later and you're still waiting. I'm sure they're busy, held up, whatever. If you're afraid to miss the call, why not give them your cell number?


I know!! I don't know what I was thinking when I gave them my work number

Well it's sort of day 3.... I had the blood work done on Tuesday... if it got to the lab Tuesday it's day 3, if it got there on Wed it's day 2

I'm just a wreck....
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soontobecruz Posted: Apr 01, 2011 11:50 AM+
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Re: freaking out!

Posted by Byrne2Be

Take a deep breath - FM if you wanna talk! I spend every single day of my working life in and out of drs offices and I feel pretty confident saying that the delay in calling back likely has ZERO to do with you!

Also, labs are sometimes unreliable in terms of getting results back, etc.

There are SO MANY reasons for the delay...

I can only imagine your anxiety...but try to remain calm...honestly, deep breathing really helps!

I have a doctors appt next week for a similar reason and i'm already freaking out so I don't want you to think I'm just rambling to try and make you feel better!!!



Thank you, and good luck with your testing as well.

Also I do believe you that the delay probably has nothing to do with me. It's just that being it's Friday I really would like answers before the weekend.. so that's an added stressor.
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2010BTB Posted: Apr 01, 2011 11:51 AM+
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Re: freaking out!

Ok so maybe the results aren't in yet or just came in and the dr hasn't reviewed yet. I'm sure everything is ok - bad news travels fast!
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Clover23 Posted: Apr 01, 2011 11:52 AM+
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AwaitingAugust Posted: Apr 01, 2011 12:14 PM+
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Re: freaking out!



as the others have said, i doubt the delay has anything to do with the result ... give them another hour or two and then call them back

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flibbertigibbet Posted: Apr 01, 2011 12:17 PM+
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Re: freaking out!

If it was me...

I would just call and say 'Look I'm really sorry -- I don't want to bother you guys but I'm sort of starting to get anxious here and I'm at work (or whatever)... please call me AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.'
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Byrne2Be Posted: Apr 01, 2011 12:19 PM+
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Re: freaking out!

Posted by flibbertigibbet

If it was me...

I would just call and say 'Look I'm really sorry -- I don't want to bother you guys but I'm sort of starting to get anxious here and I'm at work (or whatever)... please call me AS SOON AS POSSIBLE.'


I really like this. I've actually said almost exactly the same thing with my gyn's office staff in the past and they were totally understanding....
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cateydee Posted: Apr 01, 2011 12:24 PM+
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Re: freaking out!

i agree with heather and becki. I'd bug the shizz outt of them. Don't feel bad! Its your health and well being, not theirs!
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barbtony Posted: Apr 01, 2011 12:27 PM+
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Re: freaking out!

Hang in there

Give it an hour or 2 and call them again
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AdriandSteve Posted: Apr 01, 2011 12:39 PM+
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Re: freaking out!

Caalm down! It's not going to make them call you any faster and it's only going to make all the things you've been feeling worse.
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barbtony Posted: Apr 01, 2011 01:25 PM+
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Re: freaking out! UPDATE!!!!

Happy to hear positive results!!!!!!!!!!!

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AngnShaun Posted: Apr 01, 2011 01:27 PM+
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AwaitingAugust Posted: Apr 01, 2011 01:37 PM+
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jhines4684 Posted: Apr 01, 2011 01:41 PM+
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Rosalind_75 Posted: Apr 01, 2011 02:27 PM+
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Re: freaking out! UPDATE!!!!

YEAHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHHH

NOW GO ON PEREZ AND LOOK AT SOME PICS OF YOUR OTHER HUSBAND
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