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Is this person supposed to be attractive?
Becca2010
Posted: Mar 14, 2011 11:08 PM+

Posted: Mar 14, 2011 11:08 PM
Re: Is this person supposed to be attractive?
Posted by Clover23
Posted by PrincessBride09
I don't post on here too much anymore...but I just saw this and felt the need to point out another side to this. I am naturally really skinny even though I do not have an eating disorder as some people think you have to have to be very skinny. Everyone is shaped differently. I have seen models/women who look unhealthy, but this particular girl does not, and I don't think we can assume she is 'anorexic.' I have been called that several times in my life and I am far from it. I don't think anyone would think it was ok to post a picture of someone who was overweight and go on and on about how she looks unhealthy, like she ate too much, or that she makes us sick. I am just pointing this out because I have dealt with that my whole life and it always bothered me. People see a skinny person and feel perfectly comfortable saying 'eat something', yet it would be a different story if someone told an overweight person to 'get on a treadmill.' It's the same thing.
I agree, and I dealt with this for a lot of my life as well.
HOWEVER. this girl just looks angry and unattractive - regardless of her weight. IMO.
This was my point. A person can be skinny and look perfectly healthy and that's great, but exactly like Clover said - this person does not seem healthy to me and yes, looks just plain angry!
CarolAnn721
Posted: Mar 15, 2011 09:50 AM+

Posted: Mar 15, 2011 09:50 AM
Re: Is this person supposed to be attractive?
Posted by PrincessBride09
I don't post on here too much anymore...but I just saw this and felt the need to point out another side to this. I am naturally really skinny even though I do not have an eating disorder as some people think you have to have to be very skinny. Everyone is shaped differently. I have seen models/women who look unhealthy, but this particular girl does not, and I don't think we can assume she is 'anorexic.' I have been called that several times in my life and I am far from it. I don't think anyone would think it was ok to post a picture of someone who was overweight and go on and on about how she looks unhealthy, like she ate too much, or that she makes us sick. I am just pointing this out because I have dealt with that my whole life and it always bothered me. People see a skinny person and feel perfectly comfortable saying 'eat something', yet it would be a different story if someone told an overweight person to 'get on a treadmill.' It's the same thing.
In my defense, I still think her body looks like a hanger, but I am overweight and my body runs between an 8 to a 12 depending on the time of year and how much I work out, etc. That being said, I have never been a plus size, have health issues due to my weight, etc and my entire life I have been called fat. For example, I went for a bike ride and someone yelled out of their car window, 'It's about time'. I actually laughed. I would say at least 1 time a month since I was 23 or so someone has put me down because of my weight... People overweight, even by 10-20 pounds get abused. I don't pity anyone who gets told to eat something. I wish someone offered me a hamburger....LOL
Edit for spelling
Byrne2Be
Posted: Mar 15, 2011 09:52 AM+

Posted: Mar 15, 2011 09:52 AM
Re: Is this person supposed to be attractive?
Posted by CarolAnn721
Posted by PrincessBride09
I don't post on here too much anymore...but I just saw this and felt the need to point out another side to this. I am naturally really skinny even though I do not have an eating disorder as some people think you have to have to be very skinny. Everyone is shaped differently. I have seen models/women who look unhealthy, but this particular girl does not, and I don't think we can assume she is 'anorexic.' I have been called that several times in my life and I am far from it. I don't think anyone would think it was ok to post a picture of someone who was overweight and go on and on about how she looks unhealthy, like she ate too much, or that she makes us sick. I am just pointing this out because I have dealt with that my whole life and it always bothered me. People see a skinny person and feel perfectly comfortable saying 'eat something', yet it would be a different story if someone told an overweight person to 'get on a treadmill.' It's the same thing.
In my defense, I still think her body looks like a hanger, but I am overweight and my body runs between an 8 to a 12 depending on the time of year and how much I work out, etc. That being sad, I have never been a plus size, have health issues due to my weight, etc and my entire life I have been called fat. For example, I went for a bike ride and someone yelled out of their car window, 'It's about time'. I actually laughed. I would say at least 1 time a month since I was 23 someone has put me down because of my weight... People overweight, even by 10-20 pounds get abused. I don't pity anyone who gets told to eat something. I wish someone offered me a hamburger....LOL
People can be so harsh...
VCanizalez
Posted: Mar 15, 2011 11:07 AM+

Posted: Mar 15, 2011 11:07 AM
Re: Is this person supposed to be attractive?
Wait she is modeling clothes???????WHAT?
Shoot I can model too them!!
Oh btw...
Here have some pupusas chica, (She looks hungry)
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