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At my wits end with FH's family-UPDATE
2009Bride2Be
Posted: Dec 25, 2008 12:29 PM+

Posted: Dec 25, 2008 12:29 PM

Re: At my wits end with FH's family
Wow I thought I had some issues... Im sorry to hear you are going through hell with your in laws, that really sux! You should maybe remind them that a wedding is a celebration of love and its not about how big the hall is, how big the wedding is or any of that BS, ITS ABOUT YOU AND YOUR FH getting married and spending your lives together!Weddings can bring out the best of people and it can also bring out the ugliest... I think it may be a good idea to talk to them, as weird as that is, but you dont want to start a marriage resenting your in laws ya know?
lizzie217
Posted: Dec 25, 2008 12:44 PM+

Posted: Dec 25, 2008 12:44 PM

Re: At my wits end with FH's family
Posted by mimid15
I am not the type of person to forget the hell you put me thru. I may forgive u, but I will never forget what you did to me!
I understand your upset but from an outside point of view it's best to try to work out these differences before the wedding. The wedding is one day but your in laws are with you for life. You need to work with FH to find a way to get along with them bc you will have them in your life forever. I hope this works out for you
Mrs A in May
Posted: Dec 25, 2008 01:12 PM+

Posted: Dec 25, 2008 01:12 PM

Re: At my wits end with FH's family
Just wondering, where are they from that they think a LI wedding will not be classy??And also

EmiNoa628
Posted: Dec 25, 2008 05:47 PM+

EmiNoa628
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Posted: Dec 25, 2008 05:47 PM

Re: At my wits end with FH's family
Ohhh No!!!! Let me tell you something!! You need to put your foot down now!! FH family don't dare comment or say anything bc I care less what they think and they know it!! I get along fantastically great with everyone but my decisions and opinion counts not theirs... So talk with FH and let him know how you feel... Good Luck!!

mimid15
Posted: Dec 26, 2008 12:30 PM+

Posted: Dec 26, 2008 12:30 PM

Re: At my wits end with FH's family-update
Brat23
Posted: Dec 26, 2008 12:58 PM+

Posted: Dec 26, 2008 12:58 PM

Re: At my wits end with FH's family
Ugh! I am frustrated for you! I know what it feels like to be in that position!You need to talk with FH and seriously tell him enough is enough and he needs to take a stand because they are sucking the life out of your planning!
gina409
Posted: Dec 26, 2008 01:12 PM+

Posted: Dec 26, 2008 01:12 PM

Re: At my wits end with FH's family-UPDATE
well at least fh did what he had to do..im happy for that i hope it gets better and it if does not screw em..dont let anyone ever ever ruin ur chance at a happy life together
2009wedding
Posted: Dec 26, 2008 01:41 PM+

Posted: Dec 26, 2008 01:41 PM

Re: At my wits end with FH's family-UPDATE
I am really sorry you are going threw this. Weddings bring out the worst in people. At least your fh stands behind you and makes them see what they are doing is wrong. My fh family also caused a lot of problems for me with the wedding planning and all I can see is me remembering all the bad things they did to me but then I thought about it the day is about fh and I and no one is going to wreck my wedding day or make me upset. Don't let them get to you. Your wedding day will be great and you will see they will back off after you are married. I am hoping for everyone to be a family and be close with each other after my wedding and after all the stress is gone. I always wanted that and I am going to try and see if I can make things work with fh's family. I want to. It would be great.Welcome New Vendors
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