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JanuaryBride06 Posted: Feb 14, 2006 04:18 PM+
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Re: update!NWR: so this girl in the office got carnations from this guy...

Two weeks TOPS
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milerose Posted: Feb 14, 2006 04:19 PM+
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Re: update!NWR: so this girl in the office got carnations from this guy...

I think that she is very rude. I would appreciate any type of flowers I got.

Not to mention carnations last a lot longer than roses do.
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stephanief Posted: Feb 14, 2006 04:21 PM+
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Re: update!NWR: so this girl in the office got carnations from this guy...


Posted by mtdr1106

i cant believe she called the florist!!! that is insane!!

honestly - i dont blame her for being pissed or disapointed - if she expected something else- but her actions were so out of line!!

when you get a gift wheter you hate it or love it - you say thank you and keep it. acting like a total child just proves she was not worth the investment for roses.



I think that's the problem...don't EXPECT anything this way you are grateful for what you get. This girl is a freakin loser !!!!
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eroxgirl Posted: Feb 14, 2006 04:30 PM+
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Re: update!NWR: so this girl in the office got carnations from this guy...


Posted by Beth1210

she called the florist- what's wrong with her

I hope she dumps him- b/c HE deserves a nice girl





As a person who HATES carnations - and I mean I truly loathe them - I would EAT them before I'd dare call the florist or be pissed at a new boyfriend for not getting me roses on v-day. I don't understand people like that. With that attitude she doesn't deserve ANYTHING except to be kicked to the curb.
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103005FallBride Posted: Feb 14, 2006 04:31 PM+
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Re: update!NWR: so this girl in the office got carnations from this guy...

Hopefully this guy sees this as a WARNING and RUNS!
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glinda_goodwitch Posted: Feb 14, 2006 04:35 PM+
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Re: update!NWR: so this girl in the office got carnations from this guy...


Posted by 69

two weeks huh????? I am leaning towards one week myself any takers????



Here's why I say 2 weeks: when she called him and told him she wanted roses instead, he felt BAD, which means he's a softy and will probably not want to drop her so fast. A lot of guys would have been pissed at her saying that and would have told her to forget any plans for tonight! So I think that because he's a nice guy, it will take him 2 weeks before he gets so fed up with her that he drops her AZZ.
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BKtoLI Posted: Feb 14, 2006 04:56 PM+
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Re: update!NWR: so this girl in the office got carnations from this guy...


Posted by 69

So she calls him and tells him thank you but she doesn't really like carnations and would have prefered roses.. . and he's like well there was a fortune cokie thing that I could've wrote a message in and I thought you'd like these better...

he now feels bad and she feels alittle bad.. I don;t think this relationship will work.... maybe we shoud have a running bet on this one.... she's always entertainment for our office... the only single one left and not too smart




Gee, and she wonders why she was stil single???

My bet is no more than a month....and I only say that because I am giving her the benefit of the doubt. Let her know that she really should be thankful, because there are plenty of women who didn't get jack squat today!!
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LUCKinlove Posted: Feb 14, 2006 05:25 PM+
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Re: update!NWR: so this girl in the office got carnations from this guy...

I agree she may be very rude and unappreciative but last year I had a similar moment.

I received on V-day this flower arrangement that looked like a funeral arrangement from my FH. Plus the vase was cracked! I was both thrilled and i have to admit a little embarrased when I received them at work. I felt like an ungrateful b**** but it just didn't seem right - not like my FH at all! I immediately called to thank him and he was so cute. I felt terrible to even be such a brat. I brought the flowers home that night and my FH flipped! He had ordered a roses and I got orchids and stuff. The place was out of roses so they tried to pass it off since it was going to work. The said it was a comparable arrangement. CAN YOU IMAGINE!!! I am glad I brought them home or else he would never have known he was getting ripped off!

This year I got beautiful pink daisies. I love that man!
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Mrs. dleeny Posted: Feb 14, 2006 06:49 PM+
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Re: update!NWR: so this girl in the office got carnations from this guy...

that was so thoughtful of him. she is ungrateful! not everyone has or wants to spend $60-80 on roses (price gougers!) on V-day.
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Nali Posted: Feb 14, 2006 07:50 PM+
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Re: update!NWR: so this girl in the office got carnations from this guy...


Posted by Mrs. Powell

It is not the gift that counts but rather the thought and time this young man put into it. Alot of people get fancy gifts and there is no true meaning and love behind it. This girl should be grateful for what he gave her.



I totally agree....it is definately the thought that counts!!!!
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SillyBeans Posted: Feb 14, 2006 08:37 PM+
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Re: update!NWR: so this girl in the office got carnations from this guy...

I LOVE roses, and I would want roses. BUT, if I got carnations or anything else, I would be thankful. It is the thought that counts. Maybe she more concerned with what the people in the office would think about him?
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Swan06 Posted: Feb 14, 2006 09:09 PM+
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Re: update!NWR: so this girl in the office got carnations from this guy...

I wouldn't get upset. Atleast he thought of her. I honestly don't think that what she did was right.
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