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Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?
cc2011 Posted: Jul 19, 2010 04:37 PM+
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Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?

I was actually thinking I may want to bustle after my 1st dance so that it would look pretty in pics and on video.

Do brides typically bustle after the first dance?
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halfbaked Posted: Jul 19, 2010 04:40 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?

That's what I did, but don't forget that it will hinder your dancing. We knew we weren't going to do any elaborate dances anyway so I left it unbustled.

ETA: Typically though you get bustled before the first dance.
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MrsDrinkh20 Posted: Jul 19, 2010 04:42 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?

I bustled right after the ceremony! I didn't have a long train but I just wanted to be able to move comfortably
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CrazyLove11 Posted: Jul 19, 2010 04:42 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?

I'll probably bustle before so I can walk out during the announcement and boogie a little before the first dance which I also want to have some decent movement during!
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cc2011 Posted: Jul 19, 2010 04:44 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?


Posted by jilliibabii

That's what I did, but don't forget that it will hinder your dancing. We knew we weren't going to do any elaborate dances anyway so I left it unbustled.

ETA: Typically though you get bustled before the first dance.



Thanks. That's a good point you raise about being able to dance while the dress is unbustled. I doubt we'll do anything elaborate...FH doesnt want to!! lol
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cc2011 Posted: Jul 19, 2010 04:47 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?

Is it hard to bustle a dress? I guess it probably depends on the dress.
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geegee827 Posted: Jul 19, 2010 04:47 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?

I bustled before the CH - we went to CH and I didn't want to deal with holding my dress or having someone step on it.
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FutureJOC Posted: Jul 19, 2010 06:45 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?

I am planning on having it bustled before I walk into the reception hall for 2 reasons. 1) I don't want to have to hold it up while I am dancing. 2) I don't want to have to leave in the middle of the party/food course to go upstairs to have it bustled.
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FutureMrsG Posted: Jul 19, 2010 07:11 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?

I bustled my dress before the first dance. I did not want to risk having DH step on it.
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BriansWifey Posted: Jul 19, 2010 08:23 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?

I didn't have a long train at all but I bustled before the first dance. I wouldn't have been able to dance without the bustle...
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Soon2BeMrsB Posted: Jul 19, 2010 08:29 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?


Posted by cc2011

Is it hard to bustle a dress? I guess it probably depends on the dress.



It def depends on the dress and how many points you have. Mine was only about 7 and the bridal attendant and my sister did them in about 5 minutes.
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cc2011 Posted: Jul 19, 2010 08:50 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?

I haven't gotten my dress yet. So I guess it's gonna depend on how functional my dress is. If it's not hard to bustle I'm thinking I'm gonna end up bustling it for cocktail hour, the unbustle for 1st dance and then bustling after the first dance.
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T E R I Posted: Jul 19, 2010 08:57 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?


Posted by geegee827

I bustled before the CH - we went to CH and I didn't want to deal with holding my dress or having someone step on it.



I did the same thing
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Lsorrent Posted: Jul 19, 2010 09:07 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?

I had a cathedral train.......there was no way I was dancing with that, lol. I bustled before our grand entrance.
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Lisalana Posted: Jul 19, 2010 09:10 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?

i'll probably bustle it right before CH. definitely don't want people stepping on it.
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AugustBridein09 Posted: Jul 19, 2010 10:46 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?

My dress was HUGE so after the ceremony and cocktail hr I had it bustled. It took 2 people and about 5 minutes.
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rdubs Posted: Jul 19, 2010 10:49 PM+
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Re: Do you bustle before or after your 1st dance?

My bustle was only down the entire day during ceremony.
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