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lipglossjunky73
Cai-Dizzle. Nuff said.
Member since 10/05 9121 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/17/2006 12:00 PM
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Harbor Club
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How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
I am hearing about women kicked off for being a  .... And, women wrongly being accused of being
How do you know? What are some of the signs? I am just curious - and fascinated why someone would come on here if they werent a bride - don't they have better things to do with their time???
What's up with that????
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Posted 2/9/06 7:58 AM 
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lcherian
I'm a Mrs.!!
Member since 10/04 2876 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/24/2006 2:30 PM
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Hyatt Wind Watch
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
i dont even bother with calling someone a . i'd rather give someone the benefit of the doubt and risk being wrong, rather than calling someone a fake and they end up being a real bride who's feelings i've just hurt.
and besides, its not our job to police these boards...that's ron and liz's job! 
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Posted 2/9/06 8:06 AM
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werock0709
More in love than ever!!!
Member since 12/05 8532 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/6/2007 6:30 PM
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SandCastle
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
I ask myself the same thing all the time. It is truly a waste of our time and theirs.
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Posted 2/9/06 8:06 AM
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SPITSBRIDE
My Forever
Member since 1/05 4212 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/26/2005 12:00 AM
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Jericho Terrace A+++++
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
Posted by werock0709
I ask myself the same thing all the time. It is truly a waste of our time and theirs.
I agree
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Posted 2/9/06 8:30 AM
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soon2bmrsdunn
I love my husband!!!
Member since 11/05 6954 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/8/2007 1:00 PM
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Villa Lombardi's - A+
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
I don't ever call anyone a fake on here. I just choose not to respond to anyone who I think may be a fake. I've been wrong in the past but sometimes I just can't deal with the drama.
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Posted 2/9/06 8:39 AM
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Mrs. Powell
DH Sure Knows How to spoil Me
Member since 10/05 3105 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/4/2005 12:00 AM
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
I will not be calling out anyone on the boards that I think is fake because something happened on another board and it turned out that she was real bride. I really felt so bad inside.
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Posted 2/9/06 8:41 AM
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aliwnec10
I love my husband!
Member since 9/05 2164 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/7/2006 5:30 PM
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Gurneys Inn in Montauk
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
wait... seriously... people are fakes on here? I don't get it. Why? And how on earth can you pick out the fakes?? That's just odd.
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Posted 2/9/06 8:44 AM
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JPCP4806
Due May 2007!!!
Member since 9/04 1153 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/8/2006 3:00 PM
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Carlyle on the Green A++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
Posted by aliwnec10
wait... seriously... people are fakes on here? I don't get it. Why? And how on earth can you pick out the fakes?? That's just odd.
I don't even think of that till its pointed out to me. I think everyones telling the truth on here. and most people ARE telling the truth- its just sad that sometimes we have in certain posts.
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Posted 2/9/06 8:51 AM
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bridy06
An amazing wedding!!!!
Member since 1/06 1384 total posts
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1/2/2001 3:00 PM
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
Some people are losers.
I have actually gotten some FMs from people who feel the need to ask me why my date says 2012 or whatever.
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Posted 2/9/06 9:02 AM
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kittythestray
I married my love!!
Member since 1/06 4789 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/1/2006 11:30 AM
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Tall Grass - A+
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
I don't get it either, I mean, what's the point??? They just want to get married so they make up all sorts of fake plans?? It just seems REALLY weird.
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Posted 2/9/06 9:03 AM
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JPCP4806
Due May 2007!!!
Member since 9/04 1153 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/8/2006 3:00 PM
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Carlyle on the Green A++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
Posted by bridy06
Some people are losers.
I have actually gotten some FMs from people who feel the need to ask me why my date says 2012 or whatever.
Whats the big deal if your's says 2012?!?!? Everyone has different plans and or circumstances... People have long engagements ( mine was 2yrs and a couple months) and I love it- Planning when sooooo smooth but its not for everyone-
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Posted 2/9/06 9:05 AM
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bridy06
An amazing wedding!!!!
Member since 1/06 1384 total posts
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1/2/2001 3:00 PM
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
It's actually 2006... but I didn't put down the real date.
My reasoning : there was some crazy drama threads when I first joined so I felt uncomfortable posting my info.
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Posted 2/9/06 9:06 AM
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smara
Member since 12/05 3169 total posts
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8/26/2006 1:30 PM
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
I dont think I will ever call someone a liar, it takes to much time and energy to even bother with the drama.. but seriously what are some flags that you think makes someone a fake - just curious
Message edited 2/9/2006 9:19:49 AM.
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Posted 2/9/06 9:19 AM
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werock0709
More in love than ever!!!
Member since 12/05 8532 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/6/2007 6:30 PM
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SandCastle
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
Posted by bridy06
Some people are losers.
I have actually gotten some FMs from people who feel the need to ask me why my date says 2012 or whatever.
Thats a valid question though. Doesn't mean there fake. I'm certainly NOT a liar or a fake and I wonder the same thing!!
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Posted 2/9/06 9:22 AM
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MrsDaniRella
Serenity.
Member since 1/06 8561 total posts
Wedding Date:
9/9/2007 2:15 PM
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Flowerfield- INFINITE A+
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
Posted by lcherian
i dont even bother with calling someone a . i'd rather give someone the benefit of the doubt and risk being wrong, rather than calling someone a fake and they end up being a real bride who's feelings i've just hurt.
and besides, its not our job to police these boards...that's ron and liz's job!
totally agree! 
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Posted 2/9/06 9:26 AM
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BrideChrissy
Happy Anniversary To Us
Member since 1/06 4124 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/21/2007 12:00 AM
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Booked
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
I don't know who is fake and not and you won't know but if I feel that what I am reading could be fake I just ignore it and won't respond.
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Posted 2/9/06 9:41 AM
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JPCP4806
Due May 2007!!!
Member since 9/04 1153 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/8/2006 3:00 PM
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Carlyle on the Green A++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
Posted by BrideChrissy
I don't know who is fake and not and you won't know but if I feel that what I am reading could be fake I just ignore it and won't respond.
I Agree! I just look past it- too much stuff going on in my life to be worried if someone is fibbin when they are posting!
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Posted 2/9/06 9:43 AM
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bridy06
An amazing wedding!!!!
Member since 1/06 1384 total posts
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
But why do others care what the date is?
There are lots of brides on here who don't post their real dates; there are definitely more who do, but why would someone feel the need to question it...
I just think it's kind of weird.
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Posted 2/9/06 9:44 AM
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JPCP4806
Due May 2007!!!
Member since 9/04 1153 total posts
Wedding Date:
4/8/2006 3:00 PM
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Carlyle on the Green A++++++++++++++++++++++++++++
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
Posted by bridy06
But why do others care what the date is?
There are lots of brides on here who don't post their real dates; there are definitely more who do, but why would someone feel the need to question it...
I just think it's kind of weird.
I dont know - maybe they are just curious. But if they are mean about it thats a different story
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Posted 2/9/06 9:59 AM
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babybug631
Little peanut due in November!
Member since 1/05 2038 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/17/2005 7:00 PM
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West Sayville Country Club
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
Posted by bridy06
But why do others care what the date is?
There are lots of brides on here who don't post their real dates; there are definitely more who do, but why would someone feel the need to question it...
I just think it's kind of weird.
I always just figured the ones with the dates really far away either were having a long engagement or didn't have a date set yet. It's not a big deal.
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Posted 2/9/06 10:06 AM
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October Bliss
Beyond Obsession
Member since 8/05 7629 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/8/2006 2:30 PM
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Country Gardens @ East Wind
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
Posted by lipglossjunky73
I am hearing about women kicked off for being a .... And, women wrongly being accused of being
How do you know? What are some of the signs? I am just curious - and fascinated why someone would come on here if they werent a bride - don't they have better things to do with their time???
What's up with that????
The number one sign of a is a poster whose very first post is a thread either bashing a vendor or singing their praises.
People do this for a variety of reasons. Some are just trolls out to start drama and cause trouble. Others are vendors trying to plug their own business (although you won't see a LIW vendor do this), some are friends of vendors.
The one thing they all have in common is too much time on their hands.
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Posted 2/9/06 10:08 AM
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riniko
Board Fanatic
Member since 12/04 761 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/16/2005 10:00 AM
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Huntington Hilton
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
I know I was accused of being a fake because I was raving about a woman who did $25 updos! And this was like my 60th post on here. While there are fakes, people should not be quick to judge.
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Posted 2/9/06 10:17 AM
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eroxgirl
Mr. & Mrs. Eroxs
Member since 11/02 6601 total posts
Wedding Date:
6/19/2004 12:00 PM
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Westbury Manor
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
Sometimes you can tell a fake because they always post the same thing (generally vendors, but they're pretty easy to spot), sometimes there's SOOO much drama around a person they can't possibly be real...or they just spew so much B.S. that they either have egos the size of Texas or they're fakers trying to get attention. Once there was a fake who posted for MONTHS and made "friends" with some of the brides on here until someone discovered the truth. Come to think of it, this has happened at least twice.
Personally I don't believe in calling people out unless it is soooo blatantly obvious because there have been times when brides have been falsely accused and you don't want to hurt someone who may be innocent, but at the same time brides have been hurt by befriending people who aren't genuine.
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Posted 2/9/06 10:28 AM
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PrincessRose
At least I'm entertaining. ;-)
Member since 9/03 4669 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/29/2004 11:30 AM
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Chateau Briand
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
Posted by eroxgirl
Once there was a fake who posted for MONTHS and made "friends" with some of the brides on here until someone discovered the truth. Come to think of it, this has happened at least twice.
One of those "brides" was mentioned the other day on a thread about "LIW girls I'd like to meet most"!
I don't believe in calling people out either. There are nicer ways to find out if someone is faking, by simply asking them a few questions about their planning, or if they say they've already been married, ask them for pictures. The recent s on here caught me TOTALLY by surprise, but I still stand by my beliefs that it's wrong to call people out unless you ABSOLUTELY know for sure.
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Posted 2/9/06 12:02 PM
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smurray
My Twin....Half of My Life....
Member since 8/05 2578 total posts
Wedding Date:
8/31/2007 6:00 PM
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Nassau County Museum of Art
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Re: How do you know a bride-to-be is a fake?
Posted by riniko
. While there are fakes, people should not be quick to judge.
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I agree 100%
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