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KKPK1004
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Member since 5/08 367 total posts
Wedding Date:
10/4/2008 12:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace - Skylight Room
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Re: what would you do/ what could you do in this situation?
I wouldn't give it a 2nd thought, drama begets drama....
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Posted 7/30/08 12:40 PM 
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Mich0621
Forever my Love 11-18-07
Member since 5/07 3930 total posts
Wedding Date:
11/18/2007 11:30 AM
Wed. Location:
Watermill Caterers
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Re: what would you do/ what could you do in this situation?
Your wedding is 2 years from now-and it is nearly impossible to plan to deliver on a certain day. TTC is not as easy as it looks.
Don't you think you are overreacting a tad? Maybe just have a heart to heart?
Message edited 9/5/2008 2:35:07 PM.
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Posted 9/5/08 2:34 PM
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jtgarsik
CrAzY 'BoUt tHe HubBy :)
Member since 11/05 8703 total posts
Wedding Date:
12/1/2006 5:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: what would you do/ what could you do in this situation?
i'm really sorry if this comes off harsh at ALL, because i know u're having a hard time with whoever this person is... but this is really REALLY silly. You're driving yourself crazy over something entirely ridiculous. make the decision to enjoy your wedding planning and forget about this person.. u're letting her win by letting her rob ur joy and mess with everything that should be giving you happiness. you're going to push the date up as far as possible??? its just all so silly to me...this is about marrying the love of your life..i highly doubt she's secretly planning this..and if she does 1) it probably wont work out, and 2) who cares..u'll enjoy ur day anyway(or atleast i hope u will). if it does end up that way u'd be the bigger person by enjoying every second of ur wedding planning along with ur wedding day, and being happy for her pregnancy. let it go...by doing just this u're letting this person get exactly what she wants - and that's getting the better of u & robbing ur joy.
Message edited 9/5/2008 2:49:32 PM.
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Posted 9/5/08 2:46 PM
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sophisticat13
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Member since 11/07 1874 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/20/2008 11:00 AM
Wed. Location:
Land's End
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Re: what would you do/ what could you do in this situation?
Posted by FutureMrsCarrieri
if she was able to pull something like that off, then she is truly diabolical.
I don't think it's going to happen. So I think she'll try to do it another way -- your best bet is to distance yourself from her starting ASAP and give her zero info about your wedding
good luck
ITA...I would be more worried that she will do something else that she has near total control of (like wear white to your wedding or wear an ubersexy dress or something like that) to try to upstage and sabotage you. The fact that you posted about it means that you are letting her get to you and steal your right to enjoy your wedding planning, which like a PP said...means that she is already winning. The best way to handle it is to plan the best wedding you can, do not share anything about it with her so she has ammunition to sabotage/upstage you, and limit your contact with her as much as possible. You cannot change her, only how you handle your reactions to her...
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Posted 9/5/08 5:40 PM
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xxpazzaxx
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Member since 8/08 200 total posts
Wedding Date:
5/21/2010 3:00 PM
Wed. Location:
The Inn at New Hyde Park
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Re: what would you do/ what could you do in this situation?
you know what..theres always going to be someone jealous of you..take it as a compliment bc there is no getting away from it unless u ditch the person (which u can't bc its family). as far as worrying about her trying to steal the spotlight by having a baby shower or something on the same day as you..simply send out save the date cards b4 her. if you send them out you are holding that date and people will feel obligated to go to your event being that thats where they were invited first. hope that all makes sense.
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Posted 9/6/08 4:14 PM
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Nurse12985
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Member since 2/08 746 total posts
Wedding Date:
7/15/2010 7:00 PM
Wed. Location:
Jericho Terrace
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Re: what would you do/ what could you do in this situation?
They won't be in labor at your wedding. Trust me. If it's their 1st baby the mom will be in labor for a long time. She will have to cross her legs till your night is over. She could demand a c-section on a particular date. In that case it would be early in morning and FH's parents can see the baby and be on their way.
If she's been on the pill for a while/ hormonal birth control it's not that easy to get pregnant, trust me. It's really hard/ impossible to plan you birth to the very day.
I have somebody in my family much like this, prob the same relation to me as this person is to you. They will prob be knocked up at my wedding but im over it. I am not letting anybody or anything bring me down on the happiest day of my life. I just ignore comments from this person, it's hard but in the end im a bigger person.
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Posted 9/6/08 5:03 PM
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