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Posted by tgrlily339

Where were these secret boards? Im confused and just trying to catch up.. sorry

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as soon as we all found out about them, ya know, since they really werent that terrible , they disappeared, i mean someone just deleted them! on a different website that you need to be 'invited' by one of them to chat with them...

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Posted by tgrlily339

Where were these secret boards? Im confused and just trying to catch up.. sorry

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I don't remember what the actual website was, but it wasn't on LIWeddings.com. It was a board they made up themselves.

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ohhh ok... was just curious.. thanks

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Are we in highschool

this is a wedding foram thats it....

If you have other problems talk to a therapist or you friends not your 'computer friends' .....


Im over the drama

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thanks for the explanation!!!

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this just really saddens me.. I guess coming on here to get ideas and plan a wedding is more stress than I can bargain for. Anyone else feel like deleting their account and not bothering anymore since you never know who is talking about you??

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I know I am a new member so I am not going to take sides or trash talk anyone because a) I wasn't involved and it''s not my place to do that and b)I am not the type to bad mouth people period but I am still REALLY CONFUSED!! I guess what gets me is people keep saying there was a lot of drama on these boards a few months back (hence the formation of the new boards) and that just makes no sense to me! I thought this site was supposed to help people who are getting MARRIED network and share ideas?? How could drama even result from such a thing in the first place?? This whole situation just really upsets me because I was referred to this site by one of my best friends and she did nothing but rant and rave about how wonderful everyone is. She made some good real life friends from this site and I was hoping that eventually I could do the same! I am not going to take sides either way but I really hope this gets resolved as I am too old and too busy to deal with this type of drama! I just don't understand why we can't all be friends!

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That explains some of it..I just don't understand why?

I really love coming to this board, its sad when you have to have your guard up just to have casual convo on a open wedding board!

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so that really explains why a lot of people who were posting on here on a regular basis....suddenly stopped..

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Posted by Dreemer107

so that really explains why a lot of people who were posting on here on a regular basis....suddenly stopped..

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you were READING my mind - its like they all disappeared - probably lurking and reading EVERY word ...

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wow what is LIW coming to?

How do you make up your own board? Do you create your own web site or something? I dont get it? I missed alot today, huh?

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Or off on their new board starting it all over again...hmmm.

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im sure it will just take some googling and websurfing to find it... im game - im at work til 9pm...

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Posted by MaureenM618

Or off on their new board starting it all over again...hmmm.

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probably..i hope theyre talking about me, i love being famous lol

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I was apart of that board but I think I read it for maybe 4 days and then lost the link to it so I just never went back.

In all honesty, I have no idea what is going on or what was being said but no offense to anyone I dont have free time FOR MYSELF lately let alone enough free time to worry about other peoples business and talking negatively about others.

Hope this blows over and everything goes back to normal!

We all have weddings to plan people!!!!!!

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Posted by Aristotelina

I was apart of that board but I think I read it for maybe 4 days and then lost the link to it so I just never went back.

In all honesty, I have no idea what is going on or what was being said but no offense to anyone I dont have free time FOR MYSELF lately let alone enough free time to worry about other peoples business and talking negatively about others.

Hope this blows over and everything goes back to normal!

We all have weddings to plan people!!!!!!

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Well put. There are far too many more important wedding related issues that we are all stressing over.

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

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Posted by Aristotelina

I was apart of that board but I think I read it for maybe 4 days and then lost the link to it so I just never went back.

In all honesty, I have no idea what is going on or what was being said but no offense to anyone I dont have free time FOR MYSELF lately let alone enough free time to worry about other peoples business and talking negatively about others.

Hope this blows over and everything goes back to normal!

We all have weddings to plan people!!!!!!

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Well put. There are far too many more important wedding related issues that we are all stressing over.

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however, i bet if you were one who wasnt part of the board ou would have a bit more time to waste in being upset about people being so terrible.

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

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Posted by Aristotelina

I was apart of that board but I think I read it for maybe 4 days and then lost the link to it so I just never went back.

In all honesty, I have no idea what is going on or what was being said but no offense to anyone I dont have free time FOR MYSELF lately let alone enough free time to worry about other peoples business and talking negatively about others.

Hope this blows over and everything goes back to normal!

We all have weddings to plan people!!!!!!

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Well put. There are far too many more important wedding related issues that we are all stressing over.

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however, i bet if you were one who wasnt part of the board ou would have a bit more time to waste in being upset about people being so terrible.

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Listen, I didnt read the board and I could care less what people say, think, etc about me. If they want to be immature and ignorant, go ahead. I am here to support fellow brides.

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

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Posted by Aristotelina

I was apart of that board but I think I read it for maybe 4 days and then lost the link to it so I just never went back.

In all honesty, I have no idea what is going on or what was being said but no offense to anyone I dont have free time FOR MYSELF lately let alone enough free time to worry about other peoples business and talking negatively about others.

Hope this blows over and everything goes back to normal!

We all have weddings to plan people!!!!!!

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Well put. There are far too many more important wedding related issues that we are all stressing over.

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however, i bet if you were one who wasnt part of the board ou would have a bit more time to waste in being upset about people being so terrible.

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Perhaps but in all honesty WHO CARES!! Its a message board. If people were wasting their time talking smack about me I would probably feel sorry for them and not really take it to heart!!!

Unfortunately, people (not all of them, but MOST) talk about other people. As long as its not the people closest to you or that MATTER to you--who cares?!!!!!!

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Posted by Dreemer107

so that really explains why a lot of people who were posting on here on a regular basis....suddenly stopped..

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Right I was wondering aobut that.