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Posted by Aristotelina

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Posted by MrsDrinkh20

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Posted by IrishBrideASmiling

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Posted by Aristotelina

I was apart of that board but I think I read it for maybe 4 days and then lost the link to it so I just never went back.

In all honesty, I have no idea what is going on or what was being said but no offense to anyone I dont have free time FOR MYSELF lately let alone enough free time to worry about other peoples business and talking negatively about others.

Hope this blows over and everything goes back to normal!

We all have weddings to plan people!!!!!!

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Well put. There are far too many more important wedding related issues that we are all stressing over.

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however, i bet if you were one who wasnt part of the board ou would have a bit more time to waste in being upset about people being so terrible.

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Perhaps but in all honesty WHO CARES!! Its a message board. If people were wasting their time talking smack about me I would probably feel sorry for them and not really take it to heart!!!

Unfortunately, people (not all of them, but MOST) talk about other people. As long as its not the people closest to you or that MATTER to you--who cares?!!!!!!

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the reason a lot of girls are getting mad is because they wewre talking sht behind their back on this other board, then come here and be friendly....and on top of that this board had a shower coming up, you know those same people talking sht about girls would be all friendly in their faces in person. why couldnt they just say it on this board? and why go create a new one? because they were scared of what people would think of them, and didnt want to be looked at as two faced or sht talkers.

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No, I TOTALLY agree! Thats def cr*p and I dont want to seem insensitive--the girls who were talked about def have every right to feel upset and angry!!!

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I am extremely embarrassed that vendors were nice enough to make the 09 Shower extra nice for us and now it's cancelled over stupidity.
The old timers never had drama and if there was a little things got fixed right away and remained friends. I feel bad for the newbies that started to post and now they have to hear about this drama.

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I really hope I was not talked about.
I feel I have done nothing wrong and I sick to the rule 'If you have nothing nice to say do NOT say anything a all'!

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Posted by Tori9299

I really hope I was not talked about.
I feel I have done nothing wrong and I sick to the rule 'If you have nothing nice to say do NOT say anything a all'!

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u weren't dont worry

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Posted by Summertimegal424

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Posted by Tori9299

I really hope I was not talked about.
I feel I have done nothing wrong and I sick to the rule 'If you have nothing nice to say do NOT say anything a all'!

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u weren't dont worry

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Yes she was actually.... for a HOT sec... something about causing a lil ruckus regarding the shower... And all you asked tori was one little innocent thing and they got in a tizzy about it!

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Posted by FuTuRe MrS MaZz

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Posted by Summertimegal424

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Posted by Tori9299

I really hope I was not talked about.
I feel I have done nothing wrong and I sick to the rule 'If you have nothing nice to say do NOT say anything a all'!

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u weren't dont worry

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Yes she was actually.... for a HOT sec... something about causing a lil ruckus regarding the shower... And all you asked tori was one little innocent thing and they got in a tizzy about it!

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oh yes...i remember that now...something about not wanting to do the wishing well or gift thing...the DFZ planning committee didnt like htat.

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Posted by FutureMrsMacci

this just really saddens me.. I guess coming on here to get ideas and plan a wedding is more stress than I can bargain for. Anyone else feel like deleting their account and not bothering anymore since you never know who is talking about you??

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its really sad to me too, this board is actually good to keep up with planning and sharing prices, and ideas for weddings. girls just get too catty and jealous and childish that just ruins the board for the rest of us!

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Posted by meli722

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Posted by FutureMrsMacci

this just really saddens me.. I guess coming on here to get ideas and plan a wedding is more stress than I can bargain for. Anyone else feel like deleting their account and not bothering anymore since you never know who is talking about you??

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its really sad to me too, this board is actually good to keep up with planning and sharing prices, and ideas for weddings. girls just get too catty and jealous and childish that just ruins the board for the rest of us!

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I almost stopped talkin on here completely right after i found out, but i couldnt do that .... site is too addicting Hahaha I think it lasted about 2 whole days LOL

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Just bumping for all the people who just got home.

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I don't think that the problem was the board. They have every right to have their own board. I was not on there but I am honestly not hurt. I am also not upset that they have a group. I think its great that girls can get that close. I don't know what was said but I honestly say who care.... In a few years most of use will not even be on here anymore and will have our husbands and hopefully babies and this will be funny.

I think that this site was meant for girls to help each other but some people insist to be nasty on here and that is were the problem lies. Its a shame some people do not know the basic teachings for when we were children 'If you have nothing nice to say, do not say anything at all'. This is a support system and honestly 50% of the time I do not feel supported and that is why I hardly come on here anymore.

One last thing.... I am sorry for the girls who spent ALOT of time planning the shower its just not right....

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holy shiit see what happens when i work late. i miss everything.

damn

someone hook me up

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Thank you for the explanation, since I got my new jobs a few months ago, I cant come on the boards during the workday so I always feel like I miss everything. I also feel like I hardly know any of the new ladies on here....I miss so much all the time! So thank you for clearing this up

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Posted by JKFris09

Thank you for the explanation, since I got my new jobs a few months ago, I cant come on the boards during the workday so I always feel like I miss everything. I also feel like I hardly know any of the new ladies on here....I miss so much all the time! So thank you for clearing this up

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No problem. I think that part of keeping the majority of the girls on here sane is keeping the explanation free from anger and frustration. No need to bias the information and get the rest of us who were not involved even more confused!

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WOW who would of thought that chatting about whats supposed to be one of the most exciting times in our lives would lead to so much drama. We are all adults here so let's play nice right, its all about helping each other out. There should be no reason to vent about personal things here, thats what FM is for. I mean if its that critical just email/call each other personally, if you feel that close to each other anyway. Good Luck to everyone I appericiate all the advise and ideas from all my 09ers.

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I just got back from my vacation excited to catch up on the shower and all things LIW and I come home to find this. I cannot even begin to explain how disappointed I am - we are all adults here who should be excited about this once in a lifetime event we are all planning. I used to think other boards had more drama but I think our year put us right over the top. This is very sad...

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Posted by LegoBride

I just got back from my vacation excited to catch up on the shower and all things LIW and I come home to find this. I cannot even begin to explain how disappointed I am - we are all adults here who should be excited about this once in a lifetime event we are all planning. I used to think other boards had more drama but I think our year put us right over the top. This is very sad...

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I agree... and if I was Michelle I would not return all of your money! Do you all realize she is going to be out of hundreds of dollars! And all the time she already wasted.

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Posted by mcbride62009

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Posted by LegoBride

I just got back from my vacation excited to catch up on the shower and all things LIW and I come home to find this. I cannot even begin to explain how disappointed I am - we are all adults here who should be excited about this once in a lifetime event we are all planning. I used to think other boards had more drama but I think our year put us right over the top. This is very sad...

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I agree... and if I was Michelle I would not return all of your money! Do you all realize she is going to be out of hundreds of dollars! And all the time she already wasted.

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YOU ARE COMPLETELY WRONG ON THAT!!!! CONSIDERING SHE TALKED A WHOLE LOT OF S HIT ABOUT SOME GIRLS ON HERE......KARMA!!!! Whoever paid desrves their money back!!!

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Posted by mcbride62009

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Posted by LegoBride

I just got back from my vacation excited to catch up on the shower and all things LIW and I come home to find this. I cannot even begin to explain how disappointed I am - we are all adults here who should be excited about this once in a lifetime event we are all planning. I used to think other boards had more drama but I think our year put us right over the top. This is very sad...

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I agree... and if I was Michelle I would not return all of your money! Do you all realize she is going to be out of hundreds of dollars! And all the time she already wasted.

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If you feel so strongly about this why don't you offer to pay half

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I don't think there was anything wrong with starting another board IF they wanted to get away from drama and just talk about their weddings amongst themselves. In life theres always some people we will clique with more than others so if they all got along with eachother and did have a clique there is nothing wrong with that. Just like other girls on LIW feel closer to eachother and become friends. You cant get mad about that part because everyone is different and you wont always get along with everyone you meet, there are a few people you meet that you hit it off with, so JUST about that, the girls did nothing wrong.

BUT what makes no sense is to start a 'drama free zone' board but meanwhile most of it is talking sh*t behind others back, linking posts from LIW that are about drama lol and then discussing that and infact even making one thread all about any drama that the girls see on LIW to post it on there, and will also be good since some might not be on when the drama happens on LIW, so this way they can read it too. If the point was to get away from the drama then why was it always talked about. Well because the point was that on LIW when there was drama they bumped heads with another group of girls on here, so instead of having to do that they can talk with others who feel the same way as them who wont disagree with them. Some people have a problem with others disagreeing with them and can't take it. So it wasn't really to get away from drama but to get away from other girls who are very vocal and will tell them how they feel. One person who was talked alot about was MAZZ, she is very outspoken and tells it like it is, like many girls on here sometimes i might disagree with something she says, but we all dont agree with everything posted on here. But one thing is that you know how she feels and will tell it to you in a thread instead of acting nice and turning around talking BS about the person. So even if its a situation i might disagree with her about, i can respect that alot more about a person. I have disagreed with her in posts before but you just say your side and thats it. And like with others that i have disagreed with, i said what i had to say and guess what, when you say what you have to say and put it out there in the open you get over it right away lol, its when you keep it to yourself that you hold a grudge. Then when i see her and others in a post, i can talk to them like normal and I dont care about what happened in the past, we disagreed WHO CARES!!! i think thats the problem with LIW, others get mad if you disagree with them and they dont tell you personally how upset it got them and then they hold this grudge lol, its a MB with ALL women so guess what it will happen. When in life have you agreed with everything that everyone you ever came in contact with ever said. Not even your loved ones and closest friends.

The other board said they didnt like how some on here were nasty, rude and negative all the time. But then to turn around and make a board where they made alot of nasty, rude and negative remarks didn't make sense to me at all. They were doing exactly what they said they hated what others did on here, so really it was no different, they just had a board where nobody disagreed with them. If it was all about planning and them talking about things in their lives then it wouldn't have been a problem at all. I have been reading that other board for about 2 weeks or so, i did read and remember alot of things that were said. Not everybody said mean things but alot did, i think it was newer ppl who were invited that didn't participate much in talking sh*t.