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Official 30+ Brides (previously 40+ thread)
sophisticat13
Posted: Jan 29, 2009 11:45 PM+

Posted: Jan 29, 2009 11:45 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!
What else do you have left to do for your wedding?
sophisticat13
Posted: Jan 29, 2009 11:48 PM+

Posted: Jan 29, 2009 11:48 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Posted by Ray8183I wore a brown and cream polka dot tea lenght dress and the food was great.
Posted by sophisticat13
What did you wear? How was the food?![]()
I went to a tasting at CLM and the food was really good
I wish we could go to a wedding there sometime! Another one...the one I am most curious about lol...did you feel funny at all being 40+ in a sea of 'younger' brides? This is why I hesitated buying tix and by the time I decided they were sold out....
Ray8183
Posted: Jan 30, 2009 08:34 AM+

Posted: Jan 30, 2009 08:34 AM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Would you believe no one said anything. Also I wouldn't care I have the same rights to be there as the 20s and 30s. I was on the dance floor and stay there. To me age is a number and as long as you feel young at heart it doesn't matter. CLM is having a V-day dinner, but I can't remember how much.
Posted by sophisticat13
Posted by Ray8183I wore a brown and cream polka dot tea lenght dress and the food was great.
Posted by sophisticat13
What did you wear? How was the food?![]()
I went to a tasting at CLM and the food was really goodI wish we could go to a wedding there sometime!
Another one...the one I am most curious about lol...did you feel funny at all being 40+ in a sea of 'younger' brides? This is why I hesitated buying tix and by the time I decided they were sold out....
Karsav7096
Posted: Jan 30, 2009 12:57 PM+

Posted: Jan 30, 2009 12:57 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
I was at TWOTY, 09 shower and 80's prom and even though I am much older then the majority of the girls I have never felt funny or uncomfortable. The girls are all great and alot of fun!!! So in the future don't be afraid to join in on the fun!!!
DeeDee1013
Posted: Jan 30, 2009 01:18 PM+

Posted: Jan 30, 2009 01:18 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Just wondering.....My DH and I are 50+. We are not going to have any children.
We do have a number of cats that we rescued. To us, they are almost like children. They give us unconditional love and seem to know when we are down, which is when they want to 'snuzzle'.
Just wondering if anyone that reads this thread feels the same way about their pets.
Future Mrs H
Posted: Jan 30, 2009 06:25 PM+

Posted: Jan 30, 2009 06:25 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Posted by DeeDee1013
Just wondering.....
My DH and I are 50+. We are not going to have any children.
We do have a number of cats that we rescued. To us, they are almost like children. They give us unconditional love and seem to know when we are down, which is when they want to 'snuzzle'.
Just wondering if anyone that reads this thread feels the same way about their pets.![]()
I have not pets at the moment but I was married before and had no kids, but we did have 2 cats. They were my'kids'. The worst part was when I had to leave them when I left my ex. I couldnt take them with me. to this day I call on both their b'days and say happy b'day on the ans machine from mommy. I know its silly but I still miss them.
FH and I arent going to have children but we are planning on dogs.(FH is allergic to cats) They will be our babies!
Future Mrs H
Posted: Jan 30, 2009 06:26 PM+

Posted: Jan 30, 2009 06:26 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Posted by sophisticat13
Yay!!!!!!!!!!!!!!![]()
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What else do you have left to do for your wedding?
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I have to book the church. I called this morning and they told me a priest will call me back. here it is 6:25 and I am still waiting.
All my big things are done, video, phot,limo,dj.
Ray8183
Posted: Feb 01, 2009 03:38 PM+

Posted: Feb 01, 2009 03:38 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
I agree.
Posted by Karsav7096
I was at TWOTY, 09 shower and 80's prom and even though I am much older then the majority of the girls I have never felt funny or uncomfortable. The girls are all great and alot of fun!!! So in the future don't be afraid to join in on the fun!!!
Ray8183
Posted: Feb 01, 2009 03:40 PM+

Posted: Feb 01, 2009 03:40 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
We will not have children, FSIL will be 29, I will make a great sexy step-grandmother.
Posted by Future Mrs H
Posted by DeeDee1013
Just wondering.....
My DH and I are 50+. We are not going to have any children.
We do have a number of cats that we rescued. To us, they are almost like children. They give us unconditional love and seem to know when we are down, which is when they want to 'snuzzle'.
Just wondering if anyone that reads this thread feels the same way about their pets.![]()
I have not pets at the moment but I was married before and had no kids, but we did have 2 cats. They were my'kids'. The worst part was when I had to leave them when I left my ex. I couldnt take them with me. to this day I call on both their b'days and say happy b'day on the ans machine from mommy. I know its silly but I still miss them.
FH and I arent going to have children but we are planning on dogs.(FH is allergic to cats) They will be our babies!
Ray8183
Posted: Feb 01, 2009 03:41 PM+

Posted: Feb 01, 2009 03:41 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Okay ladies, it's Feb...so when will we have our gtg?
Michy2009
Posted: Feb 02, 2009 09:43 AM+

Posted: Feb 02, 2009 09:43 AM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Yippie!!! Finally a thread for us fabulous ladies over 40!!!
I actually joined LI Weddings when I first got engaged but have not really followed too much because I couldn't relate very much to the 20 and 30 somethings here on this board. Nothing against them at all, I just am at a different stage in my life at them. I am sooooo excited that there are other ladies on here that I can relate to.
About me...I have been engaged for two years this week, and plan to marry sometime next year. Just starting my planning now. I will be 41 when I marry, he will be 38. It is my second marriage, his first. (Although I would like to forget that the first one ever happened
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Ray8183
Posted: Feb 02, 2009 09:50 AM+

Posted: Feb 02, 2009 09:50 AM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Welcome and congrats.
Posted by Michy2009
Yippie!!! Finally a thread for us fabulous ladies over 40!!!![]()
I actually joined LI Weddings when I first got engaged but have not really followed too much because I couldn't relate very much to the 20 and 30 somethings here on this board. Nothing against them at all, I just am at a different stage in my life at them. I am sooooo excited that there are other ladies on here that I can relate to.
About me...I have been engaged for two years this week, and plan to marry sometime next year. Just starting my planning now. I will be 41 when I marry, he will be 38. It is my second marriage, his first. (Although I would like to forget that the first one ever happened)
Michy2009
Posted: Feb 02, 2009 09:58 AM+

Posted: Feb 02, 2009 09:58 AM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Thank you...I look forward to sharing ideas with you ladies and hearing your advice..
Karsav7096
Posted: Feb 02, 2009 10:05 AM+

Posted: Feb 02, 2009 10:05 AM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
welocme to our thread and congrats!!!!
Michy2009
Posted: Feb 02, 2009 10:06 AM+

Posted: Feb 02, 2009 10:06 AM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Thank you..
Future Mrs H
Posted: Feb 02, 2009 06:26 PM+

Posted: Feb 02, 2009 06:26 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Welcome to our wonderful thread!!
sophisticat13
Posted: Feb 02, 2009 06:28 PM+

Posted: Feb 02, 2009 06:28 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Posted by Ray8183I agree.
Posted by Karsav7096
I was at TWOTY, 09 shower and 80's prom and even though I am much older then the majority of the girls I have never felt funny or uncomfortable. The girls are all great and alot of fun!!! So in the future don't be afraid to join in on the fun!!!
Thank you, I will!!!!!!!
Future Mrs H
Posted: Feb 02, 2009 06:30 PM+

Posted: Feb 02, 2009 06:30 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Ok - so I booked my church! So happy. Now the only problem is getting FH Baptism Certificate. FH was adopted at 6 months but he was baptized when he was 3 weeks old. We dont know what church but it was in Rockville Center. So now we have to some research. Why hasnt the whole Church thing been easy for me??? Everything else is falling in place so nicely except the church
sophisticat13
Posted: Feb 02, 2009 06:41 PM+

Posted: Feb 02, 2009 06:41 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Posted by DeeDee1013
Just wondering.....
My DH and I are 50+. We are not going to have any children.
We do have a number of cats that we rescued. To us, they are almost like children. They give us unconditional love and seem to know when we are down, which is when they want to 'snuzzle'.
Just wondering if anyone that reads this thread feels the same way about their pets.![]()
OMG we feel exactly the same way about our 3 cats...I love them (I heart ALL cats lol) and couldn't live w/o them. SO true about unconditional love :) I am 41 and DH is 47 and we are not against the idea of kids but we also accept the fact that it may not happen for us biologically bec of our ages. So our cats are our furry children....I want to buy my mother a T-shirt that says, 'So you're telling me all my grandchildren have fur?'
Ray8183
Posted: Feb 02, 2009 06:42 PM+

Posted: Feb 02, 2009 06:42 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Posted by Future Mrs H
Ok - so I booked my church! So happy. Now the only problem is getting FH Baptism Certificate. FH was adopted at 6 months but he was baptized when he was 3 weeks old. We dont know what church but it was in Rockville Center. So now we have to some research. Why hasnt the whole Church thing been easy for me??? Everything else is falling in place so nicely except the church![]()
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