What is the rudest thing someone has said to you as you have been planning your wedding??

You know even one has an opinion...especially when you don't ask for it!


Here is mine...The Swan Club has like 5 weddings going on at the same time...everyone is falling all over each other! Completely not true!

Oh and then someone else said that my church is really ugly!

Nice right??

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your not having a BAND!
what about all of your older guests!

you mean my Grandma- she live- most people at our wedding are OUR friends- 35 and under!

ETS- I made up a rule early on- NO PAY- NO SAY!

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When finding out that I am having NO group dances (i.e., electric slide, chicken dance, etc.) I was told that NO ONE WILL DANCE THEN!!!!

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my mom told me she thought my 1940s caddy was stupid!

I flipped on her!

I was like did I ask u what u thought

she asked me 'did u book the limos?'
I said 'yes'
she asked 'o what did you get'
I replied 'a 1940s caddy and an escalade'
BTW I LOVE caddies!
she was like 'that is stupid, why not a rolls?'


UGH!
I was like well good thing you arent paying for it!

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Posted by beautyq115

You know even one has an opinion...especially when you don't ask for it!


Here is mine...The Swan Club has like 5 weddings going on at the same time...everyone is falling all over each other! Completely not true!

Oh and then someone else said that my church is really ugly!

Nice right??

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mostly why are you waiting so long????
and today i got a comment my mother told me that someone said. 'why arent they getting married in the church?' its none of anyones f-ing business why im not getting married at the church if you dont want to come then just say so!!!!
can you tell i cant stand anyone commenting on my wedding...

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Posted by beautyq115

You know even one has an opinion...especially when you don't ask for it!


Here is mine...The Swan Club has like 5 weddings going on at the same time...everyone is falling all over each other! Completely not true!

Oh and then someone else said that my church is really ugly!

Nice right??

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Oh and also why are you waiting so long to get married?...How about mind your %$#^ business!

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Posted by Beth1210

your not having a BAND!
what about all of your older guests!

you mean my Grandma- she live- most people at our wedding are OUR friends- 35 and under!

ETS- I made up a rule early on- NO PAY- NO SAY!

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Smart girl

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My cousin is getting married 2 weeks before me. (engaged after me) His mother said to my mother after they booked:
'Well, they've been together longer than your daughter and her FH'

Sooooo, does that mean my wedding doesn't count as much as their's !?!?!?!?!?

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My dad actually said he was taking bets on how long it would take before the wedding turned into something on Jerry Springer ( based on a drunk mishap with our best man) and I snapped-

by the way-dad belongs on the show all alone

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'Is this your first marriage?'

These are strangers asking me this!! Numerous times!

I'm the first girl in my family to actually graduate from college and not be married with kids by 20. (Not that there is anything wrong with that, it's just not for me.)

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My mom told me that my FH and I need a car to be alone in after the church, I told her it cost's extra and besides we don't have the money for three cars. She felt wanting to be with our entire BP after the wedding vows was silly and that we have the whole night to hang with everybody

Then I get why did you pick John's church and not ours, 'Well maybe if the deacon would of called me back instead of waiting three weeks to hear from him'

Come on people, if I wanted your opinion I would of ask for it.


Then my dad starts on what food I should get because he wants it, forgeting who is the one getting married. May I remind you dear old DAD, you were married TWICE.

I feel better now!!!!!!!!

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Posted by tracy2246

My dad actually said he was taking bets on how long it would take before the wedding turned into something on Jerry Springer ( based on a drunk mishap with our best man) and I snapped-

by the way-dad belongs on the show all alone

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OMG, are you sure we are not related?

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Posted by RCLC0506

My cousin is getting married 2 weeks before me. (engaged after me) His mother said to my mother after they booked:
'Well, they've been together longer than your daughter and her FH'

Sooooo, does that mean my wedding doesn't count as much as their's !?!?!?!?!?

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Lisa, My moto is screw them all, if you have to make enemies along the way so be it.
-Lisa

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Let's see, mine haven't been too bad, but have pissed me off nonetheless.

My mom and FMIL when I started looking at gowns in June:
'Why are you in a rush? You have plenty of time!!' Umm did it ever occur to you that gowns on average take about 6-9 months to come in??

My mother this past weekend: 'I don't like your veil, it's not poofy enough, and you should get one of those things with the flowers on top with the headband' My response: 'Mom, this is not 1986'

I also hate when people say 'you have plenty of time to worry about it' when I talk about purchasing certain things. Maybe I just want to get all the small crap out of the way NOW so that it's less money to fork over later when all the final payments are due!!

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AGREE

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I asked one of my BM to come see the BM dress and she asked 'Why?' Grrrrr!!

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My parents (mainly my mother) said they didn't like my idea of naming the tables as candies (M&Ms, sweedish fish, jordan almonds, etc) and having the candy of that table out for munching. They said that those candies will look cheap and 'common'. Everyone else thought it was a cute idea, including my FM!

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Posted by BKtoLI


I also hate when people say 'you have plenty of time to worry about it' when I talk about purchasing certain things. Maybe I just want to get all the small crap out of the way NOW so that it's less money to fork over later when all the final payments are due!!

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Thank you! That is my favorite one too....ummm hello are you the one that has to do all these things and pay for them too!

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Lets see...

First I got 'Oh i heard that place is expensive, you are crazy spending that much money it's one day' ( Did I ask her to pay for it? )

Then I got 'Why are you ordering your dress now, your wedding is 8 months away' (that came from someone who odviously has NO clue!)

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My Mom-why are you getting THAT dress...it's UGLY

numerous people- why a Sunday night- NO ONE will come!
oh so can I cross you off then?

FSIL (on idea for favor) that's TACKY- (you all know how I hate that word!!)

many many others

oh, but the BEST are about my e-ring...

is that a sapphire...did you want that- NO idiot, my fh felt I was worthy of a diamond!

some chik actually asked to see my ring, and then RIGHT after AND RIGHT in front of Me, said to her sister 'um, can I talk to you for a minute' I wanted to knock her OUT!