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*~* November Is Our Month *~*
xXxNovember08xXx
Posted: Jul 29, 2008 09:38 PM+

Posted: Jul 29, 2008 09:38 PM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
Posted by FinallyEngaged
Posted by PauliesGirl
any november brides not have their invitations in their hand yet? I ordered but don't have them yet and still have to get calligraphy done am I wayyy behind????
I have not even finalized my order... still waiting on the final proof.....![]()
You will be fine! Your not behind at all!!!!
we are in teh same boat...
CC11208
Posted: Jul 29, 2008 09:50 PM+

Posted: Jul 29, 2008 09:50 PM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
Posted by xXxNovember08xXx
Posted by FinallyEngaged
Posted by PauliesGirl
any november brides not have their invitations in their hand yet? I ordered but don't have them yet and still have to get calligraphy done am I wayyy behind????
I have not even finalized my order... still waiting on the final proof.....![]()
You will be fine! Your not behind at all!!!!
we are in teh same boat...
I have mine b/c I ordered them very early, knowing I wouldn't have enough time to do much when school begins again. But I think you still have time!
When were you planning on sending out your invitations? You can count back a month from that date as your RSVP, and then count 2-4 weeks from that as the mailing date. Then you'll be able to figure out when to do calligraphy. I got this advice from someone on here, just can't remember who!
If you're doing your own (either computer or by hand), you can do what I'm doing.... printing a few envelopes at a time at night while watching TV, that way it's not overwhelming. If you're sending them out to be done, you may want to research calligraphers now so you know who and what you want when the time comes!
Don't mind me, I sometimes plan way too far in advance!
CC11208
Posted: Jul 29, 2008 09:57 PM+

Posted: Jul 29, 2008 09:57 PM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
Posted by PauliesGirl
How many weeks in advance are you girls planning on mailing your invites??
Wedding is November 2nd
RSVP date is October 1st
I wanted 2 weeks leeway for calling those missing RSVPs. I think we have to give our final headcount 2 weeks before (have to double check that date at our menu meeting on Aug 14).
xXxNovember08xXx
Posted: Jul 29, 2008 10:09 PM+

Posted: Jul 29, 2008 10:09 PM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
Posted by CC11208
Posted by xXxNovember08xXx
Posted by FinallyEngaged
Posted by PauliesGirl
any november brides not have their invitations in their hand yet? I ordered but don't have them yet and still have to get calligraphy done am I wayyy behind????
I have not even finalized my order... still waiting on the final proof.....![]()
You will be fine! Your not behind at all!!!!
we are in teh same boat...
I have mine b/c I ordered them very early, knowing I wouldn't have enough time to do much when school begins again. But I think you still have time!
When were you planning on sending out your invitations? You can count back a month from that date as your RSVP, and then count 2-4 weeks from that as the mailing date. Then you'll be able to figure out when to do calligraphy. I got this advice from someone on here, just can't remember who!
If you're doing your own (either computer or by hand), you can do what I'm doing.... printing a few envelopes at a time at night while watching TV, that way it's not overwhelming. If you're sending them out to be done, you may want to research calligraphers now so you know who and what you want when the time comes!
Don't mind me, I sometimes plan way too far in advance!
no they will be set and ordered in about a week.... bc we are gettign the ## of invites ready ...
they will be sent out i blieve in sept for a RSVP for first week in oct.
CC11208
Posted: Jul 29, 2008 10:10 PM+

Posted: Jul 29, 2008 10:10 PM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
I'm so sorry to hear the problems some of you are having with invitations! That must be frustrating!!
For those who said they need to order invitations, a friendly recommendation: I had a good experience with Exclusively Weddings and ordered everything through their website. I had a pdf file proof emailed to me (for extra $ of course), and they made my changes within one day. The invitations were delivered very quickly too. They were easy to deal with and had great customer service when I called to speak w/ someone after placing my order online.
Kimbalina
Posted: Jul 30, 2008 07:39 AM+

Posted: Jul 30, 2008 07:39 AM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
I am hoping to send them out in 3 weeks,,, but I am suddenly nervous.I think this is the first time I am actually like 'oh boy this is it!!'! It feels amazing but at the same time, like it is getting down to the wire.
Kimbalina
Posted: Jul 31, 2008 06:46 AM+

Posted: Jul 31, 2008 06:46 AM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
Take one down, pass it around
Kimbalina
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dajc23
Posted: Jul 31, 2008 07:05 AM+

Posted: Jul 31, 2008 07:05 AM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
Posted by Kimbalina
I am hoping to send them out in 3 weeks,,, but I am suddenly nervous.
I think this is the first time I am actually like 'oh boy this is it!!'! It feels amazing but at the same time, like it is getting down to the wire.
Mine are going to be sent out towards the end of August as well. I already have mine, sitting in a box in my room waiting to be assembled lol FH and I still need to make sure we have all the envelopes printed! We made some changes to the guest list since we've sent it to the invite company to print. Oh well some people might just be getting clear labels! lol
Kimbalina
Posted: Jul 31, 2008 07:10 AM+

Posted: Jul 31, 2008 07:10 AM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
Posted by dajc23
Posted by Kimbalina
I am hoping to send them out in 3 weeks,,, but I am suddenly nervous.
I think this is the first time I am actually like 'oh boy this is it!!'! It feels amazing but at the same time, like it is getting down to the wire.
Mine are going to be sent out towards the end of August as well. I already have mine, sitting in a box in my room waiting to be assembled lol FH and I still need to make sure we have all the envelopes printed! We made some changes to the guest list since we've sent it to the invite company to print. Oh well some people might just be getting clear labels! lol
Same on my end. In the past week a few things have changed and I think we freed up a table!! LOL.. But clear lables or my lovely handwritting!
Jonas9281
Posted: Jul 31, 2008 08:20 AM+

Posted: Jul 31, 2008 08:20 AM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
Posted by cherish83
Posted by snowcutie82
Posted by PauliesGirl
How many weeks in advance are you girls planning on mailing your invites??
wedding 11/26
rsvp date 10/26
in homes around 9/26 (so im planning to mail mine a few days before 9/26)
I am mailing mine out early. Probably the first week of September. My RSVP date is October 17th (6 weeks before the wedding). I know a lot of the guests usually go away for the holiday so I wanted to make sure they had time to plan.
I am doing the exact same thing!
Jonas9281
Posted: Jul 31, 2008 08:23 AM+

Posted: Jul 31, 2008 08:23 AM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
BTW...my bachelorette party is tomorrow!!! Off to Fire Island till Monday! My best friends have been very busy the last few days..i can't wait to see what they've planned!!!
Annoulak
Posted: Jul 31, 2008 09:07 PM+

Posted: Jul 31, 2008 09:07 PM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
Ladies, I'm SOOO happy to check off one more thing on my list:FMIL found a gorgeous dress today and it didn't break the bank!
It was touch and go for a while...we had gone to a bridal boutique in the Bronx from which she had bought 2 MOG dresses in the past, but couldn't find anything we liked, plus everything was $250+. So I brought her into Queens to visit a boutique in Astoria from which my mom has bought fancy dresses in the past...only to find that it recently closed down! A boutique across the street from that store had a couple of dresses for her, but they were kinda blah on her.
So, our next stop was the Queens Center Mall, and first we went to JCPenney. We found 2 dresses, and the first one she tried on was stunning on her...it's as if it was tailored just for her. No hemming needed, no taking in needed, nothing. Not too dark blue, nor too light blue. Plus, it was on sale, so it was totally within her budget!! Couldn't be happier!!
The only thing about the dress is that it has short sleeves, and she really wanted 3/4 sleeves or a jacket, so now I need to find a pretty silver shawl for her...any suggestions about where to find that?
xXxNovember08xXx
Posted: Jul 31, 2008 11:27 PM+

Posted: Jul 31, 2008 11:27 PM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
Posted by Annoulak
Ladies, I'm SOOO happy to check off one more thing on my list:
FMIL found a gorgeous dress today and it didn't break the bank!
It was touch and go for a while...we had gone to a bridal boutique in the Bronx from which she had bought 2 MOG dresses in the past, but couldn't find anything we liked, plus everything was $250+. So I brought her into Queens to visit a boutique in Astoria from which my mom has bought fancy dresses in the past...only to find that it recently closed down! A boutique across the street from that store had a couple of dresses for her, but they were kinda blah on her.
So, our next stop was the Queens Center Mall, and first we went to JCPenney. We found 2 dresses, and the first one she tried on was stunning on her...it's as if it was tailored just for her. No hemming needed, no taking in needed, nothing. Not too dark blue, nor too light blue. Plus, it was on sale, so it was totally within her budget!! Couldn't be happier!!
The only thing about the dress is that it has short sleeves, and she really wanted 3/4 sleeves or a jacket, so now I need to find a pretty silver shawl for her...any suggestions about where to find that?
yey congrats... for a shaul i woudl check out macys??
snowcutie82
Posted: Aug 02, 2008 02:27 PM+

Posted: Aug 02, 2008 02:27 PM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
Posted by xXxNovember08xXx
Posted by Annoulak
Ladies, I'm SOOO happy to check off one more thing on my list:
FMIL found a gorgeous dress today and it didn't break the bank!
It was touch and go for a while...we had gone to a bridal boutique in the Bronx from which she had bought 2 MOG dresses in the past, but couldn't find anything we liked, plus everything was $250+. So I brought her into Queens to visit a boutique in Astoria from which my mom has bought fancy dresses in the past...only to find that it recently closed down! A boutique across the street from that store had a couple of dresses for her, but they were kinda blah on her.
So, our next stop was the Queens Center Mall, and first we went to JCPenney. We found 2 dresses, and the first one she tried on was stunning on her...it's as if it was tailored just for her. No hemming needed, no taking in needed, nothing. Not too dark blue, nor too light blue. Plus, it was on sale, so it was totally within her budget!! Couldn't be happier!!
The only thing about the dress is that it has short sleeves, and she really wanted 3/4 sleeves or a jacket, so now I need to find a pretty silver shawl for her...any suggestions about where to find that?
yey congrats... for a shaul i woudl check out macys??
macys should have something...or lord & taylor or even jcpenny might have something
Annoulak
Posted: Aug 04, 2008 02:00 AM+

Posted: Aug 04, 2008 02:00 AM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
I have had a very productive couple of days!First, FMIL bought a dress from JCPenney, the next day my mother bought a dress from Macys, and on Saturday FH picked out tuxedos!
Also, FMIL REALLY wanted a jacket to wear with her dress, so I ordered a chiffon bolero jacket from David's Bridal...should be in by late September.
And the coming week will be very productive, too. My dress is SUPPOSED to come in some time this week
, and the re-ordered invitations should also arrive this weekend (hopefully with the correct text this time!)
.Also, this coming Saturday I'll have a double whammy. First a lunch with my koumbares (sponsors) to pick out the crowns, etc for the Greek Orthodox ceremony. Then, in the early evening, I will be meeting with my RH to finalize the details!
I can't believe how quickly time is passing!!!!!!!!
deb08
Posted: Aug 04, 2008 05:24 AM+

Posted: Aug 04, 2008 05:24 AM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
so glad to see we are all getting this stuff done-- the past week I went to bakery and got my cake taken care of-I was a bad girl and changed my mind about a card box and ordered on from modernbride on ebay.(cant wait to see it)
Sunday FH and my self got our e-pic done with
Melissa !!!! cant wait to see them- will post as soon as I can,
Tuesday I pick up my envelopes from the printer and then I can start putting them together. Hope to have them in the mail by the 2nd of sept our rsvp date is Nov 1 gives me 2 weeks to get full count from those who dont send rsvp back
congrats to those who are in dd now!!!
snowcutie82
Posted: Aug 04, 2008 09:07 AM+

Posted: Aug 04, 2008 09:07 AM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
we had a productive weekend
ordered our wedding bands (pics in my album under rings!)....we can pick them up in 3 weeks.
finalized the contract for the limos for the bp
set up our apt with the pastry chef
and i think my shower invites went out this weekend
Kimbalina
Posted: Aug 04, 2008 01:55 PM+

Posted: Aug 04, 2008 01:55 PM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
Things Done-Church
Reception Hall
Favors purchased
DoC
BP gifts purchased
Limo Bus
Guys Limo
Flowers
Guest List and 'B' List
Videographer
Photographer
save the dates (already sent)
Invitations assembled
My dress ordered
MOB dress ordered
Bridesmaids dresses ordered
Rehersal Dinner Location
Block hotel rooms
Card Box Completed
DJ Booked
Honeymoon Booked
Hair Trial
Veil / Headpiece (something borrowed)
DOJ (something old / new)
Calligraphy for Invites
Flower girl gift
Jr. Bridesmaid gift
-Not Done-
Centerpieces
Wrap favors
Invitations (send out 8/15)
Parent Gifts
Reader Gifts
Place cards/seating chart print / create
Tuxes for FH and GM's
Flower Girl dress
Get marriage license
Find Unity Candle
MOG gown
Fh Wedding band
OOT boxes assembled
Water bottles / Lables
Assemble BP gifts
Menus
Programs
Grooms Cake
Shoes for ceremony and pics
Plan Bach-party
FinallyEngaged
Posted: Aug 04, 2008 02:00 PM+

Posted: Aug 04, 2008 02:00 PM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
Still need to:Guys BP gift
Parents gifts
Order/make white sweat suit for the day of for me
Purchase Bride's shoes
Purchase undergarments
Pick out and purchase wedding jewelry
Need something to throw for after ceremony
Purchase Guestbook for reception
Order Tuxes
Order Place cards
Purchase place card holders
Purchase cake topper
Establish seating arrangements
Book rehearsal dinner site
RD invites
Must-Take photo list
Do not play/must play lists for DJ/Band
Sit for Engagement Photos (will do that in September)
Mail out invitations
Finalize all details with all vendors
Obtain Marriage License
Prepare day-of emergency kit
Kimbalina
Posted: Aug 04, 2008 02:24 PM+

Posted: Aug 04, 2008 02:24 PM
Re: *~* November Is Our Month *~*
I am SOOOOO happy to announce the invites are completely put together and ready to go!!! WAHOOOO!!!As in assembled,, calligraphy complete.. and envelopes stuffed as well as stamped!!!
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