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Posted by AR31

so i went to check out my lengha for my reception.. i ordered it back in december and it finally came in and i wasn't too keen on it..

my lengha is all swaroski crystals and of course gold crystals was the base and it had deep green accents, but we opted for another lighter shade of green and it looks like awash now.. all gold since the green is light.. i told her i want the skirt to pop more.. and now she has to order the crystals from india and think of what to do.. she said not to worry but i wanted to sooo fall in love with it.. given how much we are paying for it..

it's a beautiful lengha don't get me wrong, it's a stunning piece and when the light hit it, it was all sparkly, sparkly, but i don't want it to look like a beige or gold lengha with some green on it.. indian clothes are supposed to pop out with color.. ugh.. she said she'll work something out.. given that there's 2 months left..

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Don't worry, it sounds like she's going to try her best to do what she can to make it what you're looking for. It may not 'pop' to you because you had envisioned something else, you know?

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Posted by MAY24BRIDE

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Posted by AR31

so i went to check out my lengha for my reception.. i ordered it back in december and it finally came in and i wasn't too keen on it..

my lengha is all swaroski crystals and of course gold crystals was the base and it had deep green accents, but we opted for another lighter shade of green and it looks like awash now.. all gold since the green is light.. i told her i want the skirt to pop more.. and now she has to order the crystals from india and think of what to do.. she said not to worry but i wanted to sooo fall in love with it.. given how much we are paying for it..

it's a beautiful lengha don't get me wrong, it's a stunning piece and when the light hit it, it was all sparkly, sparkly, but i don't want it to look like a beige or gold lengha with some green on it.. indian clothes are supposed to pop out with color.. ugh.. she said she'll work something out.. given that there's 2 months left..

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Don't worry, it sounds like she's going to try her best to do what she can to make it what you're looking for. It may not 'pop' to you because you had envisioned something else, you know?

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It's the exact same as the sample piece, I just envisioned it with more color.. but now that I keep looking at it, it might work..

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Posted by Dulhan

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Posted by AR31

so i went to check out my lengha for my reception.. i ordered it back in december and it finally came in and i wasn't too keen on it..

my lengha is all swaroski crystals and of course gold crystals was the base and it had deep green accents, but we opted for another lighter shade of green and it looks like awash now.. all gold since the green is light.. i told her i want the skirt to pop more.. and now she has to order the crystals from india and think of what to do.. she said not to worry but i wanted to sooo fall in love with it.. given how much we are paying for it..

it's a beautiful lengha don't get me wrong, it's a stunning piece and when the light hit it, it was all sparkly, sparkly, but i don't want it to look like a beige or gold lengha with some green on it.. indian clothes are supposed to pop out with color.. ugh.. she said she'll work something out.. given that there's 2 months left..

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so what kind of green is it? like a celery green??

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a little darker than celery green, the sample piece was an emerald green, and it looked really dark.. so that's why we opted for a lighter shade.. I hope it comes out well..

I was planning on a pink outfit for the reception, but didn't find anything that struck me..

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Posted by Dulhan

I dont know why I feel like I do not have a lot of planning left...but i want to! haha im going to reception hall tomorrow to look at the stage chairs as well as seat covers. Same for the mehndi hall. Im thinking check out the cake place tomorrow as well. I still need to find an amazing mehndi person! hmmm..what else do i need to do??? lol

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LOLOL!!! we finished out favors this weekend..

i feel i like i am running out of time as well.. i want a month to enjoy and feel like a bride..

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I'm sure your dress will be beautiful! it sounds amazing with all the crystals in it!! i saw a dress like that and I absolutely loveed the way it sparkled!!

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Hi, I am totally new to this site and not located in new york at all but need some last minute help and stumbled upon this chat forum and wish I had found it sooner. I live in Jersey and my wedding is in jersey in oh about 47 days!!!!!!!!! I am freaking out basically. I have the main stuff done but I am having a really hard time finding a decent person to do my hair for the wedding/reception and my mom and soon to be SIL's hair as well. Any suggestions?

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another may bride.. welcome!!

try shikha arya, she's pricy but worth it.. not sure if she came back from india

sushmita patel, salma ismail - do great work

vendors from ny will hit you with travel as well..

good luck!!

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Posted by AR31

another may bride.. welcome!!

try shikha arya, she's pricy but worth it.. not sure if she came back from india

sushmita patel, salma ismail - do great work

vendors from ny will hit you with travel as well..

good luck!!

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Thanks for the info! yah, sushmita is booked, I tried her frist cuz my cousin had used her. grr... so frustrating. I will try the others you listed. t hanks again!

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OMG i have the biggest problem to solve. My mom had gotten the invitations printed while she was in pakistan, and I went to the RH today and found out we have the place an hour and half later than time on the card!!! :( i dont know what to do. My dad was suggesting fixing the timing with a pen!

i dont know what my options are at this point. I was hoping to send out invites monday next week!!! i need help

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I feel like getting totally new invitations printed from a local place. its annoying since my invites were nice and desi traditional, and i wanted that.
:( But if i do get them, they cant be a huge amount of money since we already spent $$ on invites from pakistan

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Ok im not freaking out anymore..i went to a printing press to see if they would replicate my insert for my invite. The lady and her daughter working there actually suggested putting in a lil note card into the invite stating that the time is later. She said to put it in in like a cute poem or something. Sooooooo.....now i need help thinking of what words to write which wont sound stupid.. All help is much appreciated!

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Hey girls - does anyone have ideas for a hindi song to play in the background during the ring ceremony for my engagement party? Something meaningful?

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I had 'tumhi dekho na' from Kabhi Alvida Na kehna during my ring ceremony :)

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i should read all the posts before i start typing!

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Posted by Dulhan

I'm sure your dress will be beautiful! it sounds amazing with all the crystals in it!! i saw a dress like that and I absolutely loveed the way it sparkled!!

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ok.. this too shall be resolved because she will add more green to it.. so it will me more blingy.. yay!!!

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Past and Present Brides...can you post your wedding day timeline... I am trying to see if I will have enough time for hair and makeup.

Ceremony and reception the same day. Please ladies..need help!!!

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bump....anyone out there?

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Hi Ladies

I am MARRIED! Omg... the day was absolutely perfect! It went extremely fast and we did fall behind in time thou. We are leaving for our honeymoon in the morning. but i will give more details when i get back. Talk to you soon.

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Yeah for GT !!!!!!!!!!!!! WooHoo, CONGRATS!!!!
I'm glad everything worked out for you. I told you not to worry. See you when you get back

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yay Gt!! enjoy your HM!!!