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Official 30+ Brides (previously 40+ thread)
Future Mrs H
Posted: Apr 01, 2009 06:02 PM+

Posted: Apr 01, 2009 06:02 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Posted by Ray8183
Eveytime i look at a dress i think how am i to go to the bathroom. Evry wedding i was in or help with I remeber helping them in the bathroom. Oh, what I didn't tell about the dress was i was in love with Fredericks of Hollywood, so you can just think about what was under the pants, top, and shoes.![]()
I think i was a problem child.
Fredericks of Hollywood???? O My!!
Problem child isnt the word. I'm sure Charlie would love it though
Ray8183
Posted: Apr 01, 2009 07:06 PM+

Posted: Apr 01, 2009 07:06 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
He know I am crazy. I took him to his first strip club. He sat in the back and I was up front bother the other men tell them they are cheap with money.
Posted by Future Mrs H
Posted by Ray8183
Eveytime i look at a dress i think how am i to go to the bathroom. Evry wedding i was in or help with I remeber helping them in the bathroom. Oh, what I didn't tell about the dress was i was in love with Fredericks of Hollywood, so you can just think about what was under the pants, top, and shoes.![]()
I think i was a problem child.
Fredericks of Hollywood???? O My!!![]()
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Problem child isnt the word. I'm sure Charlie would love it though![]()
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never a boring moment.
Future Mrs H
Posted: Apr 01, 2009 07:23 PM+

Posted: Apr 01, 2009 07:23 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Posted by Ray8183He know I am crazy. I took him to his first strip club. He sat in the back and I was up front bother the other men tell them they are cheap with money.
Posted by Future Mrs H
Posted by Ray8183
Eveytime i look at a dress i think how am i to go to the bathroom. Evry wedding i was in or help with I remeber helping them in the bathroom. Oh, what I didn't tell about the dress was i was in love with Fredericks of Hollywood, so you can just think about what was under the pants, top, and shoes.![]()
I think i was a problem child.
Fredericks of Hollywood???? O My!!![]()
![]()
Problem child isnt the word. I'm sure Charlie would love it though![]()
![]()
![]()
never a boring moment.
You are too funny. I would never bring Jerry to a strip club. I will do alot of thing but I dont think i could do that.
OMG... my little sister is a little freaky
Ray8183
Posted: Apr 01, 2009 07:58 PM+

Posted: Apr 01, 2009 07:58 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
On our first date I question him about his sexuality and what he like and want i didn't. I couldn't believe at the end of the evening when he ask can I call you tommorrow for another date. That's when I knew he was for me. I have issues.
Posted by Future Mrs H
Posted by Ray8183He know I am crazy. I took him to his first strip club. He sat in the back and I was up front bother the other men tell them they are cheap with money.
Posted by Future Mrs H
Posted by Ray8183
Eveytime i look at a dress i think how am i to go to the bathroom. Evry wedding i was in or help with I remeber helping them in the bathroom. Oh, what I didn't tell about the dress was i was in love with Fredericks of Hollywood, so you can just think about what was under the pants, top, and shoes.![]()
I think i was a problem child.
Fredericks of Hollywood???? O My!!![]()
![]()
Problem child isnt the word. I'm sure Charlie would love it though![]()
![]()
![]()
never a boring moment.
You are too funny. I would never bring Jerry to a strip club. I will do alot of thing but I dont think i could do that.
OMG... my little sister is a little freaky![]()
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sophisticat13
Posted: Apr 01, 2009 10:16 PM+

Posted: Apr 01, 2009 10:16 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Posted by Ray8183On our first date I question him about his sexuality and what he like and want i didn't. I couldn't believe at the end of the evening when he ask can I call you tommorrow for another date. That's when I knew he was for me. I have issues.
Posted by Future Mrs H
Posted by Ray8183He know I am crazy. I took him to his first strip club. He sat in the back and I was up front bother the other men tell them they are cheap with money.
Posted by Future Mrs H
Posted by Ray8183
Eveytime i look at a dress i think how am i to go to the bathroom. Evry wedding i was in or help with I remeber helping them in the bathroom. Oh, what I didn't tell about the dress was i was in love with Fredericks of Hollywood, so you can just think about what was under the pants, top, and shoes.![]()
I think i was a problem child.
Fredericks of Hollywood???? O My!!![]()
![]()
Problem child isnt the word. I'm sure Charlie would love it though![]()
![]()
![]()
never a boring moment.
You are too funny. I would never bring Jerry to a strip club. I will do alot of thing but I dont think i could do that.
OMG... my little sister is a little freaky![]()
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I could never bring DH to a strip club either. I totally admire your opennessthough!!!
Ray8183
Posted: Apr 02, 2009 08:47 AM+

Posted: Apr 02, 2009 08:47 AM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
I am so crazy, he just doesn't know who he is going meeting. I have been known to show up with different color wigs and outfits. One time I have met him at his job in one of my outfits to pick him up all his co-workers thought he was seeing another woman until later.
Posted by sophisticat13
Posted by Ray8183On our first date I question him about his sexuality and what he like and want i didn't. I couldn't believe at the end of the evening when he ask can I call you tommorrow for another date. That's when I knew he was for me. I have issues.
Posted by Future Mrs H
Posted by Ray8183He know I am crazy. I took him to his first strip club. He sat in the back and I was up front bother the other men tell them they are cheap with money.
Posted by Future Mrs H
Posted by Ray8183
Eveytime i look at a dress i think how am i to go to the bathroom. Evry wedding i was in or help with I remeber helping them in the bathroom. Oh, what I didn't tell about the dress was i was in love with Fredericks of Hollywood, so you can just think about what was under the pants, top, and shoes.![]()
I think i was a problem child.
Fredericks of Hollywood???? O My!!![]()
![]()
Problem child isnt the word. I'm sure Charlie would love it though![]()
![]()
![]()
never a boring moment.
You are too funny. I would never bring Jerry to a strip club. I will do alot of thing but I dont think i could do that.
OMG... my little sister is a little freaky![]()
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I could never bring DH to a strip club either. I totally admire your openness
though!!!![]()
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I don't know...maybe I need help.
Future Mrs H
Posted: Apr 03, 2009 08:35 PM+

Posted: Apr 03, 2009 08:35 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Just stopping by to say hiNo class tomorrow!! Yay!!
i think we are going to book our HM tomorrow.
Will let you all know how it goes!
sophisticat13
Posted: Apr 04, 2009 01:30 AM+

Posted: Apr 04, 2009 01:30 AM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Posted by Future Mrs H
Just stopping by to say hi
No class tomorrow!! Yay!!
i think we are going to book our HM tomorrow.
Will let you all know how it goes!
Hi!! Where are you looking to go? Def. let us know
Future Mrs H
Posted: Apr 04, 2009 08:29 PM+

Posted: Apr 04, 2009 08:29 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Yay!! We booked our HM!!7 Day SOUTHERN CARIBBEAN
Ship: Carnival Victory
Departs: San Juan, Puerto Rico
Itinerary: Southern Caribbean: San Juan, Puerto Rico ; St. Thomas, USVI ; Dominica ; Barbados ; St. Lucia, WI ; Antigua ; St Kitts, WI ; San Juan, Puerto Rico
We got it for $1416.00 incl all fees!!
We still have to book flights which wont come out till Dec and I have to look into Orlando for 4 days after. My travel agent said he is going to look into packages for us for that.
I am so happy and excited!
Ray8183
Posted: Apr 05, 2009 12:07 AM+

Posted: Apr 05, 2009 12:07 AM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
You will have a great time...Remember to step out of your box and try something new. It is your HM.
Posted by Future Mrs H
Yay!! We booked our HM!!
7 Day SOUTHERN CARIBBEAN
Ship: Carnival Victory
Departs: San Juan, Puerto Rico
Itinerary: Southern Caribbean: San Juan, Puerto Rico ; St. Thomas, USVI ; Dominica ; Barbados ; St. Lucia, WI ; Antigua ; St Kitts, WI ; San Juan, Puerto Rico
We got it for $1416.00 incl all fees!!
We still have to book flights which wont come out till Dec and I have to look into Orlando for 4 days after. My travel agent said he is going to look into packages for us for that.
I am so happy and excited!
Future Mrs H
Posted: Apr 05, 2009 09:02 AM+

Posted: Apr 05, 2009 09:02 AM
Ray8183
Posted: Apr 05, 2009 11:57 AM+

Posted: Apr 05, 2009 11:57 AM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Pretty. What's next?
Future Mrs H
Posted: Apr 06, 2009 06:10 PM+

Posted: Apr 06, 2009 06:10 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Posted by Ray8183
Pretty. What's next?
Next thing is Friday- MOH and I are going to look at dresses again. I have about 6 picked out. This will be so much fun!
Future Mrs H
Posted: Apr 06, 2009 07:43 PM+

Posted: Apr 06, 2009 07:43 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Time to vent about mom again. She had an attitude about me going to look at dresses Friday. I asked her to go with us and she gave me that 'why are you going now, your not getting married for 1 1/2 years' Ya think she would know me by now. I like getting things done and out of the way. Since I got that from her you would think she would understand. Why do I feel like I am pulling teeth when it comes to this wedding?Ok vent over.
Edited: I just spoke to my father about the way my mom is about this wedding. He sees it too and didnt want to say anything to me, but he feels so bad about it. He also told me that her mother (my grandmom) did the same thing to her when they were getting married and she felt bad that it was done to her. So why is she like this to me? I dont understand.
sophisticat13
Posted: Apr 06, 2009 11:19 PM+

Posted: Apr 06, 2009 11:19 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Posted by Ray8183You will have a great time...Remember to step out of your box and try something new. It is your HM.
Posted by Future Mrs H
Yay!! We booked our HM!!
7 Day SOUTHERN CARIBBEAN
Ship: Carnival Victory
Departs: San Juan, Puerto Rico
Itinerary: Southern Caribbean: San Juan, Puerto Rico ; St. Thomas, USVI ; Dominica ; Barbados ; St. Lucia, WI ; Antigua ; St Kitts, WI ; San Juan, Puerto Rico
We got it for $1416.00 incl all fees!!
We still have to book flights which wont come out till Dec and I have to look into Orlando for 4 days after. My travel agent said he is going to look into packages for us for that.
I am so happy and excited!![]()
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Yay congrats!!! It sounds absolutely awesome!!
DH and I are booking an Eastern Caribbean cruise for our one yr anniversary this July. I can't wait, we've never been on a cruise yet!!! Have you been on one before?
sophisticat13
Posted: Apr 06, 2009 11:22 PM+

Posted: Apr 06, 2009 11:22 PM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
Posted by Future Mrs H
Time to vent about mom again. She had an attitude about me going to look at dresses Friday. I asked her to go with us and she gave me that 'why are you going now, your not getting married for 1 1/2 years' Ya think she would know me by now. I like getting things done and out of the way. Since I got that from her you would think she would understand. Why do I feel like I am pulling teeth when it comes to this wedding?
Ok vent over.![]()
Edited: I just spoke to my father about the way my mom is about this wedding. He sees it too and didnt want to say anything to me, but he feels so bad about it. He also told me that her mother (my grandmom) did the same thing to her when they were getting married and she felt bad that it was done to her. So why is she like this to me? I dont understand.
It's funny how kids do the same things they hated themselves, to their OWN kids. It's like they forget how it felt
I think she doesn't fully realize she is doing it...it is alot easier to repeat a pattern than to realize you are doing it and to change. I am glad your dad sees it though and is on your side
just as we are!!!
eta: Love your toasting flutes!!
Ray8183
Posted: Apr 07, 2009 12:30 AM+

Posted: Apr 07, 2009 12:30 AM
Re: Official 40+ Brides
ITA...What want you to know, that my mom and sisters have not looked at any RHs, dresses, or flowers with me. My FMIL want to go with me to look at dresses and I have to make my family sit down and look at invites. I am so gave that my FH care about what I am doing.
Posted by sophisticat13
Posted by Future Mrs H
Time to vent about mom again. She had an attitude about me going to look at dresses Friday. I asked her to go with us and she gave me that 'why are you going now, your not getting married for 1 1/2 years' Ya think she would know me by now. I like getting things done and out of the way. Since I got that from her you would think she would understand. Why do I feel like I am pulling teeth when it comes to this wedding?
Ok vent over.![]()
Edited: I just spoke to my father about the way my mom is about this wedding. He sees it too and didnt want to say anything to me, but he feels so bad about it. He also told me that her mother (my grandmom) did the same thing to her when they were getting married and she felt bad that it was done to her. So why is she like this to me? I dont understand.
It's funny how kids do the same things they hated themselves, to their OWN kids. It's like they forget how it feltI think she doesn't fully realize she is doing it...it is alot easier to repeat a pattern than to realize you are doing it and to change. I am glad your dad sees it though and is on your side
just as we are!!!
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eta: Love your toasting flutes!!![]()
When I told my mom I'm wearing blue shoes she ask what color is the dress and I told her black to get a rise. She said no white dress and i said the shoes will still be blue. Then she said if I buy the shoes can you wear white and said still need something blue, she said can it be the panties. I said no I;m wearing organge because i want to shine, then she said her famous line. Okay it's your wedding you can wear what you want. That's was months ago.
Now my e-party is Sept 26, so far the only people who have ask about it was my co-workers. You would think since both mother want the party, they would ask questions. My mom is all about the cake and MFIL is all about it a call a family friend to DJ. So don't feel bad you can vent anytime.
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